so down :(

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ste8901

anyway. i give up im staying single,and not placing my trust in any girl for a longtime :smile:

Ste correct me if im wrong but aren't you in Huddersfield uni like me?
If so i cant see why you dont get down to Visage and find someone else
theres loads of nice girls for you out there.
Even more so if your living in Storthes Hall.
If someone treated me like that id kick **** out of them never mind try and make up with them.
Chin up mate! neul desperandum (never despair) :wink:

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ste8901

yeah im at hudd university in storthes hall :frown:

Reply 22

Sazarina88

ste8901

she knows how upset i am and says she loves me and cares about me but she wont get back with me.

In my opinion, it seems as though she is telling you that she loves you to make you feel better about the situation e.g. she has cheated but still loves you.

Perhaps she doesn't really know what she wants relationship-wise at the moment. Do you think it would help to try and get some "closure"?

As others have said, it sounds as though she really isn't worth getting so upset/down over. You have a lot of other things to focus on at the moment. Focus on these things and try not to think about her too much. If you find yourself thinking about her, finish the thought (don't think "Agh! I'm thinking of her, must stop!" Just acknowledge that you are thinking about her but that it isn't necessary) and then think about something else. Over time, you'll hopefully find you think of her less and less.

Reply 23

iangarner18

ste8901

yeah im at hudd university in storthes hall :frown:

Sorry ive just realised visage is a pretty bad example of where to go looking for someone new. :frown:

Ive got a mate who met his girlfriend at Storthes Hall.
Im not living there i live on Firth Street across the road from the uni health centre. My mate says there are plenty of nice down to earth girls in Storthes
get out there! :biggrin:

Dont let it ruin what should be the best 3 years of your life :wink:

Reply 24

Choad

ste8901

been with a girl for 9 months, absolutely think the world of her.it took me 6 months to get with her and i love spending every minute of the day with her :frown:

. she really doesnt seem like the type to cheat. ive moved away but its only 20 mins on the train from uni, and shes texts me on friday telling me shes cheated on me and that were finished. such a shock and im so depressed :frown:

never felt like this about a girl before. just hate it :frown:

. i said id forgive her cos i love her, and shes insistant she doesnt want to be with me but ive done nothing wrong and she knows how upset i am and says she loves me and cares about me but she wont get back with me. im so depressed i havent eat for 4 days, and i just feel sick when i go near food, i cant sleep...and im just all around down. just seems like shes making any excuse possible not to be with me :frown:

been there feeling like that...

it plain sucks

there is no magic cure... just time... but being arround decent mates to distract you can help. and weed. lots and lots of weed

Reply 25

ste8901

apparently shes having problems cos she cant decide her future and stuff so im like, well ill forgive you for cheating on me and i just want to be by your side and help you sort ur head out and that. shes saying she misses me an **** yet she wont get back with me and claims shes got no-one. im sposed to just pretend were just friends and ****, when we could just be together and id help her sort it out. shes making no sense at all :frown:

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ste8901

iangarner18