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    Hi,

    I went out with my ex for 5 years.

    She met another lad whilst at uni. Never admitted it.

    Instead of finish me, she just stopped contact. Diddly squat, just never heard from her.

    As you can imagine, this angers me somewhat.

    I get drunk and txt harass her. Is this right?

    Also, when i see the lad she's with, does he deserve a beating?

    Thoughts please.
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    "Am i right to harass my ex?"

    Possibly one of the stupidest questions I've ever heard. Move on.
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    No. Let your girlfriend go as heart takes her. Plenty more fish in sea. When you see boyfriend, offer him left cheek and then right cheek if left cheek not good enough. You know what I say?
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    Leave her alone and get a life. People move on and times change. Learn to adapt.
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    Dude you're angry and need to take a step back and realise what you're saying. Being violent and harassing your ex. won't solve anything but show how bitter you are. Take some time out, treat yourself, hang out with mates and let time take it's course. Just don't do something you can see yourself regretting.
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    (Original post by KellsEnder)
    "Am i right to harass my ex?"

    Possibly one of the stupidest questions I've ever heard. Move on.
    Please shush.

    No. Let your girlfriend go as heart takes her. Plenty more fish in sea. When you see boyfriend, offer him left cheek and then right cheek if left cheek not good enough. You know what I say?
    My thoughts exactly. I might stand on his face if need be.

    I feel in some way that i've been injusticed. I do not love her, more hate.

    5 years, thats a long time. Kinda want an explanation.
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    (Original post by Choccielatte)
    Leave her alone and get a life. People move on and times change. Learn to adapt.
    Shut up you little ponce! You're 16, you have NOOOOOOO idea.
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    Well if you hate her, why's there a need to harrass her? Just leave her alone, you're better off without her and by harrassing her you're showing her that she made the right decision and is better off with out!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Shut up you little ponce! You're 16, you have NOOOOOOO idea.
    I love how you're extremely rude to someone and then do a little to try and soften it at the end.

    Troll.
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    (Original post by Root)
    Dude you're angry and need to take a step back and realise what you're saying. Being violent and harassing your ex. won't solve anything but show how bitter you are. Take some time out, treat yourself, hang out with mates and let time take it's course. Just don't do something you can see yourself regretting.
    OP here.

    Thanks for the advice.

    I just don't understand, i'm a decent, good looking sporty guy. She's gone with a skater boi joker type.

    She didn't even say we're over. Literally dissappeared!

    Total blow to my self-esteem.
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    Believe whatever you want pal, the fact of the matter is that you're justifying her decision to leave you by your outright bitterness. Move on with your life, no point obsessing over something you can never have.
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    I'm 16 so what?

    If you are the same critic from the other thread - all you are doing is reassuring me I have better moral views and more intelligence

    And I agree - troll
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    Listen to yourselves.

    So you're saying if you went out with someone for 5 years, yeah 5 years.

    You'd just leave it? Wouldn't even want an answer!?

    Bull$hit!
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    Forget it, continue to harass her. Don't come crying to us when she slaps a restraining order on you.
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    (Original post by Choccielatte)
    I'm 16 so what?

    If you are the same critic from the other thread - all you are doing is reassuring me I have better moral views and more intelligence

    And I agree - troll
    You don't even have A levels darling, let alone life experience.

    Poor niave you.

    Don't stress, when i was 16 I was arrogant enough to think I was better than everyone else too.

    Now would you be kind enough to leave my thread.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My thoughts exactly. I might stand on his face if need be.

    I feel in some way that i've been injusticed. I do not love her, more hate.

    5 years, thats a long time. Kinda want an explanation.
    No. I think you misunderstand. If he want fight, you offer him your left cheek, and if he's not satisfied slapping your left cheek then offer him your right. Forgive him. Teachings of Jesus Christ. Forgive him because it irritate him more. Teachings of Oscar Wilde.
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    (Original post by KellsEnder)
    Forget it, continue to harass her. Don't come crying to us when she slaps a restraining order on you.
    Did you even read the first post? lol Idiot.

    Humour; D'ya have a sense of?

    By harass, i mean send the odd drunk text.
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    (Original post by cat observing butterfly)
    No. I think you misunderstand. If he want fight, you offer him your left cheek, and if he's not satisfied slapping your left cheek then offer him your right. Forgive him. Teachings of Jesus Christ. Forgive him because it irritate him more. Teachings of Oscar Wilde.
    Ok. Perhaps. I'm not a violent guy, i have rugby and kickboxing for that.

    It just feels wrong that's all.

    I knew she had a selfish side, but imagine someone just dissappearing. Kinda wierd yeah?
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    (Original post by JimmyJJ)
    OP here.

    Thanks for the advice.

    I just don't understand, i'm a decent, good looking sporty guy. She's gone with a skater boi joker type.

    She didn't even say we're over. Literally dissappeared!

    Total blow to my self-esteem.
    It's tough hun but when people make decisions like that you have to deal with it. What she has done is wrong and totally unacceptable and unfortunately you have to bear the brunt of that. Just take it from me that if you just leave it and keep persevering to get on with your own life then you will get over her and learn a little about yourself along the way.
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