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I got called out for having one night stands at uni.. watch

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    Do you think that's acceptable? Should they get involved with what I do in my personal time?
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    (Original post by soanonymous)
    Do you think that's acceptable? Should they get involved with what I do in my personal time?
    Not really any of their business.
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    If this doesn't affect your university (its reputation) and other students/staff, then it isn't their business. Otherwise - I would guess it is.
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    (Original post by soanonymous)
    Do you think that's acceptable? Should they get involved with what I do in my personal time?
    I dont really even understand what you are asking here. Called out? it really depends who is saying what and in what cirumstances. Bottomline is, that its your personal life and no one elses business
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    tell them to suck it as well
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    If YOU honestly don't have a problem with it - and can explain why it works for you, then feel free to explain it to others as well. People are often critical because they simply don't understand the other's perspective. I distinctly remember one time in high school 8 years ago: there was a guy talking about how a girl was a "total ****", and another girl who was listening said "perhaps she just enjoys having sex?". That hit me like an absolute TRUCK - it hadn't even occurred to me before.

    So yeah, go forth and spread the knowledge, you could leave someone with a thought they keep forever.
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    Well that's embarassing, I don't think they should of unless they thought you were a risk eg spreading clamidia ect
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    Unless it was with a lecturer/ a lecturers daughter or you have aids.. They shouldn't interfere.
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    (Original post by soanonymous)
    Do you think that's acceptable? Should they get involved with what I do in my personal time?
    are you the one who is pregnant with a tsr members child? having ons whilst pregnant is, well, no comment.
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    They shouldn't interfere with one's personal life. It's unacceptable.
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    I don't even understand how this would have come up?
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    Depends what you mean by 'called out', if they pointed it out/commented on it when those sorts of conversation comes up then its fine. If it was random strangers calling you a slut then not fine.
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    I would give them the beat down
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    How would they have known had you not been blurting it out though? if youre going to be making it obvious that you have one night stands to random people at your uni youre going to have to deal with the consequences and not be a ***** about it
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    completely fine.

    don't do something if you can't handle it being known, y0.
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    you should do it expecting it to be known lol you don't really expect them to keep their mouths shut, do you? i have casual sex but so far haven't ruined my reputation hopefully it stays this way.
 
 
 
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