The Student Room Group

Dating a flatmate at uni

I posted this anon as i don'tknow if i live with anyone on here!

Ive just gone to uni and have started to have feelings for one of the lasses i live with. Im pretty sure sh likes me too, but i have only known her for about a week so obviously wouldn't do anything yet. My concern is how it would affect the rest of the flat mates (16 of us!) and how it would be if it didnt work out. Has any1 got any thoughts on this? or stories (HAPPY ones only! LOL)
Well i would suggest getting to know her more first, you've only known her a week. Some of the stories before are mixed, some happy, some are horror stories,
Reply 2
16 people live in your flat?

Holy crap.
Reply 3
How big is this flat :eek:
wow, i only have 5 in my flat and that's including me! :biggrin:
Reply 5
Its halls, just call it that. Thing is tho the kitchen/living room is tiny! everyones literally cramped in, so if something does end up bad it would cause a really bad atmosphere; but im wondering should i let things like that worry me?
Reply 6
Its halls, just call it that. Thing is tho the kitchen/living room is tiny! everyones literally cramped in, so if something does end up bad it would cause a really bad atmosphere; but im wondering should i let things like that worry me?
Reply 7
Sounds like you are rather quick to try and make this decision. Get to know her more first. I'd say as a rule it's a bad idea to hook up with someone you are living with. Just to clarify..you live on the same corridor in halls right? It will be very, very awkward if things don't end up working out. Not just for you but for the rest of the people on your corridor.
Reply 8
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Sounds like you are rather quick to try and make this decision. Get to know her more first. I'd say as a rule it's a bad idea to hook up with someone you are living with. Just to clarify..you live on the same corridor in halls right? It will be very, very awkward if things don't end up working out. Not just for you but for the rest of the people on your corridor.



Yeah thats exactly what im thinking, i had the same policy when at schhol then work before i came here, dont do it on your own doorstep. But...