How to fall out of love with someone?

I'm in love with this girl. It's never going to happen. She's straight for starters.

I'm totally in love with her. I cant even think about her for wanting to cry.

I just don't know how to get over her. The gay scene isn't exactly thriving here, so it's not like I can meet anyone else either. I'm bisexual, but guys really aren't doing anything for me right now :frown:

Her and her boyfriend are really good mates, and they both know I'm bi.

I just dont know what to do :frown:

Reply 1

Evil-Tuna

2

Avoid all contact. Whenever you see them use negative reinforcement such as a slap on the face. Come to terms with the fact/or delude yourself with the idea that you arent/werent ever in ''love'' with them.

Reply 2

horrorboy

Perfectly_Imperfect

I'm in love with this girl. It's never going to happen. She's straight for starters.

I'm totally in love with her. I cant even think about her for wanting to cry.

I just don't know how to get over her. The gay scene isn't exactly thriving here, so it's not like I can meet anyone else either. I'm bisexual, but guys really aren't doing anything for me right now :frown:

Her and her boyfriend are really good mates, and they both know I'm bi.

I just dont know what to do :frown:

How long have you known the girl? It sounds like infactuation but obviously you know the best. Look at the qualities which you like about her and think of her negatives. It is possible to find someone with all these qualities that she has without the negatives.

Reply 3

Perfectly_Imperfect

OP

17

maybe it is just infactuation, I don't know, but it's driving me insane.

I've known her about two and a half years, but became really good mates with her after about a year.

She's moved to uni now, and I miss her so so much.

Reply 4

horrorboy

Perfectly_Imperfect

maybe it is just infactuation, I don't know, but it's driving me insane.

I've known her about two and a half years, but became really good mates with her after about a year.

She's moved to uni now, and I miss her so so much.

You might feel a bit better tomorrow, think how she would react if you told her this. She will probably be thinking of you too but only in a friendship way, it will fade so try and occupy your mind with other things.

Reply 5

Zoecb

11

If she moved to uni it's just gonna get easier.

What could help is if you write your feelings down on a piece of paper and and then burn it, imagining your feelings crumbling like the paper. Visualise!

Reply 6

Perfectly_Imperfect

OP

17

bah. talk about head fckage.

She's drunk (i think) just had a text off her, saying she wants to experiement, and would I be willing. I texted her back saying "are you drunk? what about alex?" (her boyf) To which she replied "take that as a yes, ta xx"
I texted back asking if she was ok, no response.

It's obvious that she's drunk, but my head/heart/conscience/common sense are all over the place. I'm so confused.

I know she's straight, she's got a boyfriend, she's drunk, but there's that tiniest bit of me that wants me to believe she wants me as more than a friend.

aaaaaaaarrrgghhh

Reply 7

username47781

20

We all say stupid things when drunk

Reply 8

samba

6

Do you actually realise how amusing this is?

Do you want to be brought up on sexual assault charges? Do you want to cheat?

I think you need some serious deepdicking.

Reply 9

Perfectly_Imperfect

OP

17

she's about 30 miles away, so blatently nothing is going to happen.

doesn't stop my head being fcked up tho

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