The Student Room Group
It's never easy at first, take it slow and lots of foreplay beforehand.
She needs to relax. Reassure her. Understand it's her first time so be sensitive and make sure she is actually ready. :ditto: Start off with foreplay to make her feel more comfortable x
Reply 3
confusedguy
hey

has having sex with virgin always been such struggle? my gf is a virgin and i cant get my penis in her, any solutions?

Please stop taking the sodding piss already. :\
Reply 4
LadyEnglish
She needs to relax. Reassure her. Understand it's her first time so be sensitive and make sure she is actually ready. :ditto: Start off with foreplay to make her feel more comfortable x


on 4 occaisons i.e. long periods(7+ hours) we been together in a room,

its still not working, she says she is relaxed and wants to go for it but its not going it, she feels pain at times and then becomes to sore to try again
Reply 5
confusedguy
on 4 occaisons i.e. long periods(7+ hours) we been together in a room,

its still not working, she says she is relaxed and wants to go for it but its not going it, she feels pain at times and then becomes to sore to try again


Get hard first?
Reply 6
confusedguy
on 4 occaisons i.e. long periods(7+ hours) we been together in a room,

its still not working, she says she is relaxed and wants to go for it but its not going it, she feels pain at times and then becomes to sore to try again

It sounds like you are about to break her hymen, you'll need to go slowly, and she may experience a bit of pain, possibly a bit of blood.
Ron Stoppable
What would a burglar do if the front door's locked?

:rolleyes:


:rofl: Nice metaphor :p: x
Reply 8
Use lots of lube.

But yeah, it ****ing hurts for some people. No way around it.
Fingering!
Reply 10
my mate said it made her cry for the first month of having sex, cos of the pain. You gotta break the barrier. Tell her to bite something...HARD
Reply 11
hmm

but i can get a finger in a bit nothing more