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    I've been with my girlfriend for about a year, we are both 21. But just lately when we're about to have sex i've heard little phrases creep in from her like "do we have to?" and "what's in it for me?". I suppose this could mean her sex drive has gone down or she doesn't want to be with me anymore
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    It means you're crap in bed, basically.
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    go down on her.

    for a loooooooooooooooooooong time.
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    nah going down is nasty
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    your penis doesn't have eyes, a mouth, or smelling senses, so half the fun of women's sexual organs are lost when you stick a penis into them, because all it does is just to deposit sperm in there. at least, as the above says, go down on her for aaages- you should enjoy it too.
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    (Original post by glideman)
    nah going down is nasty
    Good luck keeping a woman satisfied with that attitude.

    Even if you think that, might be a good idea to pretend you don't.
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    (Original post by glideman)
    nah going down is nasty
    Only if your gf is a mermaid :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by BeesKnees)
    Only if your gf is a mermaid :rolleyes:
    I know quite a few dudes who don't like it, but they all do it anyway (or so they say).
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    hahahahahaha. Definately not.

    There could be a number of reasons for the "phrases" creepingup
    1. She has no sex drive
    2.She's a lesbian
    3. You suck in bed
    4. she ACTUALLY wants it in the ass
    5. she ACTUALLY wants you to wear a bunny outfit because that turns her on
    OR 6. she's an alien
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    How does telling the dude he must suck in bed help?
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    (Original post by [email protected])
    How does telling the dude he must suck in bed help?
    Makes him face up to reality?
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    Firstly I don't think women enjoy sex less than men! Some do, some don't like it in both sexes.
    How does is sex typically approcahed? I think you should try being patient, give her confidence and tell her she is beautiful, and never come into the situation when sex is expected as the end result!
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    (Original post by Squelchy)
    Makes him face up to reality?
    Fair point.
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    (Original post by grace)
    go down on her.

    for a loooooooooooooooooooong time.


    OH YEAH!
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    Oops I don't know how I posted anoynamousuomusamous! It is very overused! ...By the way my post should read "How is sex typically approached in your realtionship?"



    I hate computers...
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    (Original post by miss_lovely)
    OH YEAH!
    someone horny in da house!
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    Why don't you ask her what she'd like there to be in it for her? Then say teach me. And learn. Easy. :p:
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    It's probably just that sometime all she wants is a snuggle! I know there's times when I feel like that sometimes, and it doesn't mean I've gone off my boyfriend at all, it just means there's other things I feel like doing!
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    Yeah I wouldn't say that it's because girls enjoy sex less, more that girls don't get as horny as guys and sometimes you are tired or you have other things on your mind etc.

    Urgh the wording in that was awful but I'm tired
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    my bf turns me down sometimes

    and no, women should like sex more than men because we can *** lots of times where as men can only *** once.
 
 
 
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