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how to develop a relationship?

I've just started going out with this guy from work, he's very sweet and I think we definately have a future together. However, I'm really not sure how to get closer, if you know what I mean. When did you first kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend? I feel like I really want to but don't know when. Don't want to embarrass myself if you know what I mean, I want to know that he feels the same way. Any advice from personal experience would be great.
If you go in with a plan then you'll run out of steam when the plan is exetuted. Have no plan. Worked for me.

But as a basis of comparism I'd say... couple of days.
Reply 2
Really? A couple of days? When's the best time. Are there do's and don'ts?
Reply 3
Just go for it when it feels right. If you're sitting there having a meal and lean across the table and kiss him, that's going to be weird. If you're both laughing at something and looking into each other's eyes, that's obviously a good time.

Play it by ear. It's not rocket science.
Just give him a peck first then let him take over and see how he reacts. It usually just needs someone to make that first move!