Parents have thrown me out after i start seeing older man

Hi, my parents have just chuked me out of da house after they found out i was cing an older man, i have been wit him 4 6 months.

He is 47, i'm 17, but i love him, he loves me and wants 2 marry me and have a child 2gether.

He already has 2 children from his previous marriage.

i have moved in with him cuz ma parents told me 2 get lost and said i was a disgusting person.

Most of my friends tell me 2 dump him 2, how can i get ma friends and family to accept dat i am in luv with dis man, all ma friends keep sayin it will end in tears 4 me.

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Reply 1

Harv616

He is probably using you

No man is worth losing your family and friends over

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

but he told me he luvs me, he is so kind

Reply 3

hitmanuk2k

I think your parents would be more disgusted at your use of txt speak on the internet than the fact you are seeing an older man.

Reply 4

Harv616

Just because he treats you well and is kind to you does not mean he loves you.

he is old enough to be your dad! Dont you see anything wrong with this situation?

And i really hope this is a joke....

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

wats wrong with goin out with an older guy, so wot he's older but he treats me like a princess

Reply 6

A.Jitto

yehhhhhhhhhhh righhhhttttttt......come on its like this well if he REALLLY does LOVE u then he would definitely will try talking to ur family....and get to an agreement.....if he is not (most likely) he might jjust be using u.....hey well most old ass guys hang out with younger girls for u know what..right?....if he does love u ..... well u have to find out the truth

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

he's using u big time...dump him!

Reply 8

Harv616

Whn youb hit 27 he will be 57........thats not exactly a great realtionship

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

he said he will luv me till he dies which is all i need, my b/f tried 2 talk wit ma parents but they threatened 2 have him arrested without giving him a chance.

Reply 10

Harv616

Hes the first guy in your life to treat you nicly, right?

Reply 11

shady lane

Your family will be there for you longer than any man will. You're so young--you don't need to tear apart your relationship with your parents over someone that you may not be with for the rest of your life anyway. Very few people find their life-long partner at the age of 17.

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

yeh barj's rite....he's like ur dad's age.....

did he tell u y he divorced his ex wife?

Reply 13

A.Jitto

ohboy....ugirlsare sooooo easyyy...common duh ...he will say all that crap if he likes uuu for the other purpose....common relax and think for a minute...picture urself 20 years from now.????? common...

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

i had a b/f be4 but he was so immature, although ma b/f now i lost my virginity 2 him.

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

Anonymous

yeh barj's rite....he's like ur dad's age.....

did he tell u y he divorced his ex wife?

no he didn't

Reply 16

A.Jitto

LOOOSING ur VIRGINITY has nothing to do with a healthy relationship.....

Reply 17

Harv616

Well, i wonder why he wants you to live with him then.....

Seriously, dump him and find someone your own age! or atleast someone who was born in the same decade.

He puts you up, buys you stuff, acts nicely ---------> You sleep with him

You are basicly acting like a hooker :rolleyes: