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Sex between flatmates

If your away from your girlfriend/boyfriend for long periods of time and one of your flatmates is being very suggestive would you go for it? I'm in the position where I only see my girlfriend about once a month and a flatmate (male) is asking if I'd be up for some fun and I'd be keen to try it but purely on a physical level. Sound familar to anyone?

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Reply 1

froggi

nope. i believe in a thing called trust, honestly and relationships

Reply 2

froggi

hang on (sorry to double post) but a guy is asking you to have 'some fun'? And your male with a girlfriend?

Reply 3

Louenn

Don't, it'll make it too complicated with the flatmate, and as well, it'll make it very awkward when your g/f comes to stay.

The bad that could come from this far outweighs any possible benefits.

Also, think about how you'd feel if you heard that your g/f was having sex and/or messing around with someone else, even if it was purely physical.

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

It's your choice but I'd say as long as it's purely physical and no-one ever finds out.

Reply 5

mute

that is cheating, you lameo. that is baddd.

;no;

Um, sure you want to be with your girlfriend then? If you're even considering this, must be something not working with your gf.

And, does she know you want to "have some fun" with a man?

Reply 8

misslucifer

Ooh I don't get to see my boyfriend as much as I'd like to so I'll go have sex with a girl.

Bet you wouldn't like it if your girlfriend decided to do that.

Reply 9

Fleece

misslucifer

Ooh I don't get to see my boyfriend as much as I'd like to so I'll go have sex with a girl.

Bet you wouldn't like it if your girlfriend decided to do that.

I bet he would.

Reply 10

holly_golightly

Are you male or female op?

Reply 11

KieranP

Only if she says yes.
So no.

Reply 12

Anonymous #3

I think you should split with your girlfriend as you are still young and are clearly not sure of your sexuality. It is only right that you should experiment but not when you are playing her for a fool at the same time, (as well as risking her sexual health)

Reply 13

dh00001

i have the oppurtunity to walk down a train track everyday, should i do it?

No.

Are we being asked to condone cheating? Oh no what is the world coming to... But anyway yeh my opinion: don't do it... It'll just come back and bite you in the bum.

Reply 16

rosetinted

So monogomy is good until you find someone else that is interested in shagging you and then all morals go out the window? Wow...what a tosser you are.

Reply 17

maag101

Tell you what, give us ur gf's number. We'll call her and ask her if she minds you sleeping with another bloke. It'll save you asking her and then at least we'll get to know the outcome. We'll let you know her answer. :smile:

Reply 18

Murphyen

I'm going to be blunt. Do you care about your girlfriend or are you more interested in satisfying your own lust? If you care about her (as you should) you wouldn't consider something like this.