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    If your away from your girlfriend/boyfriend for long periods of time and one of your flatmates is being very suggestive would you go for it? I'm in the position where I only see my girlfriend about once a month and a flatmate (male) is asking if I'd be up for some fun and I'd be keen to try it but purely on a physical level. Sound familar to anyone?
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    nope. i believe in a thing called trust, honestly and relationships
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    hang on (sorry to double post) but a guy is asking you to have 'some fun'? And your male with a girlfriend?
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    Don't, it'll make it too complicated with the flatmate, and as well, it'll make it very awkward when your g/f comes to stay.

    The bad that could come from this far outweighs any possible benefits.

    Also, think about how you'd feel if you heard that your g/f was having sex and/or messing around with someone else, even if it was purely physical.
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    It's your choice but I'd say as long as it's purely physical and no-one ever finds out.
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    that is cheating, you lameo. that is baddd.
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    ;no;
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    Um, sure you want to be with your girlfriend then? If you're even considering this, must be something not working with your gf.

    And, does she know you want to "have some fun" with a man?
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    Ooh I don't get to see my boyfriend as much as I'd like to so I'll go have sex with a girl.

    Bet you wouldn't like it if your girlfriend decided to do that.
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    (Original post by misslucifer)
    Ooh I don't get to see my boyfriend as much as I'd like to so I'll go have sex with a girl.

    Bet you wouldn't like it if your girlfriend decided to do that.
    I bet he would.
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    Are you male or female op?
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    Only if she says yes.
    So no.
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    I think you should split with your girlfriend as you are still young and are clearly not sure of your sexuality. It is only right that you should experiment but not when you are playing her for a fool at the same time, (as well as risking her sexual health)
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    i have the oppurtunity to walk down a train track everyday, should i do it?
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    No.
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    Are we being asked to condone cheating? Oh no what is the world coming to... But anyway yeh my opinion: don't do it... It'll just come back and bite you in the bum.
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    So monogomy is good until you find someone else that is interested in shagging you and then all morals go out the window? Wow...what a tosser you are.
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    Tell you what, give us ur gf's number. We'll call her and ask her if she minds you sleeping with another bloke. It'll save you asking her and then at least we'll get to know the outcome. We'll let you know her answer.
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    I'm going to be blunt. Do you care about your girlfriend or are you more interested in satisfying your own lust? If you care about her (as you should) you wouldn't consider something like this.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If your away from your girlfriend/boyfriend for long periods of time and one of your flatmates is being very suggestive would you go for it? I'm in the position where I only see my girlfriend about once a month and a flatmate (male) is asking if I'd be up for some fun and I'd be keen to try it but purely on a physical level. Sound familar to anyone?
    estupidooooo
 
 
 
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