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Clueless and showing off

My friend lost her virginity to a guy who is old enough to be her dad if not older :eek:. I have been with my boyfriend for a while and she thinks its good to rub the fact in she has had sex and I haven't. I don't think she is mature enough to be having sex as she asks stupid questions which anyone would know the answer to.

I don't know why she is being so cruel by rubbing it in all the time and going over her meetings with him and acts very patronising like I am an idiot as I haven't done it yet. She keeps saying how sexy pictures are of him that he sends (pictures of his d***) which I'm getting bored of hearing, funnily enough he doesn't send anything else. She knows I am waiting for the right moment but thinks its acceptable to do it with a guy who is wasn't going anywhere with and now wants to date him even though he is engaged.

I feel like saying stop being a dirty slag!! :mad:
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My friend lost her virginity to a guy who is old enough to be her dad if not older :eek:. I have been with my boyfriend for a while and she thinks its good to rub the fact in she has had sex and I haven't. I don't think she is mature enough to be having sex as she asks stupid questions which anyone would know the answer to.


that first line confused me my friend lost her virginity then you go on to mention you been with your boyfriend then you say she thinks?
Reply 2
Sorry

Should clarify myself more properly! I mean't to put my friend finds it ok to rub it in that she has had sex and I haven't. She is acting like it is a competition :frown:
Must be annoying! I don't think there's much you can do, except try and warn her off this man (but then she'll think you're jealous of their relationship -yeah right!- and won't listen to you etc... tricky.) Good luck and cudos on waiting for the right moment with the right guy.
Yes all you can do is warn her off, she seems like a very insecure person deep down, if warning her off fails then just let her be and ignore her, she'll find out the hard way.
Reply 5
Your friend sounds like she is talking complete nonsense, what would you rather have a loving committed relationship or random meaningless sex? I say the former - sex with someone you love is way better.

Why have enemies when you have got friends? Think about it :smile: