Problem with uni mates

I was friends with 4 girls 2 have stayed on to repeat and 2 have graduated, i'm in my final year.

They meet up a lot and go away but never bother to invite me, i'm not particularly keen on the ones who have stayed on to repeat I think they have a problem as I am quiet (mainly cos I don't wish to speak to them) and very attractive.

These bitchy ones aren't nice people and the graduates can't see this as the bitchy one slagged them off when not around such as at ones wedding slagging off the groom.

I do keep in touch but they are not interested - i regret being friends with these people now and wish I had spoken to others on the course.
Is it worth me staying in touch with the nice ones, I don't see the point being friends with the bitchy ones.

Reply 1

Navajo

yer never give up on people you like.

Reply 2

RocketMan

Absolutely, stay in touch with the nice ones and just distance yourself from the bitchy ones and if they happen to ask, tell them - be honest with them - sometimes it takes others to make people like that aware of how alienating their behaviour actually is. Plus, by what you have written, it doesn't sound like there is much of a loss if you stopped seeing them, people like those you have described are best kept away from.