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How Do I Know If He's Gay?!

Oook there's this boy i like a lot in my class but going on gay stereotypes I'm unsure about him...

a) He has quite a high girlyish voice, now imagine a person impersonating a gay person and the voice they might use, and understand where I'm coming from :p:
b) He does that flick of the hand thing, hard to explain, assuming most people know what I'm on about :p:
c) A lot of his friends are girls...
d) He bitches about a lot of boys...

Just a boy in touch with his feminine side? Or a boy looking for boys :p: x

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Reply 1
You won't know unless you ask him basically.

Appearances can be deceptive. I know a reaaaaaaaaaaaally camp guy who is actually straight.
Reply 2
It's entirely possible that he's supremely camp yet straight. Just ask him straight-up (forgive the pun). Mind you; would you want a bitchy type to go out with?
Reply 3
At a guess, I would say he loves the cock, but you don't know until you ask him.
Squelchy
At a guess, I would say he loves the cock, but you don't know until you ask him.


:ditto: But you never know. He might just be very well connected to his feminin side.
Reply 5
There was a really camp guy in my school. He was straight though, was a surprise, haha.
LadyEnglish
Oook there's this boy i like a lot in my class but going on gay stereotypes I'm unsure about him...

a) He has quite a high girlyish voice, now imagine a person impersonating a gay person and the voice they might use, and understand where I'm coming from :p:
b) He does that flick of the hand thing, hard to explain, assuming most people know what I'm on about :p:
c) A lot of his friends are girls...
d) He bitches about a lot of boys...

Just a boy in touch with his feminine side? Or a boy looking for boys :p: x


You sure he isn't just really camp. I have more girls as mates then guys, I do the hand gesture thing and I bitch about men (in taking the piss out of myself), but I am straight.
Reply 7
Yeah you need to ask. I'd say he loves the cock but there are really camp boys who are straight.
Reply 8
Call him ghay and see if he hits you with his handbag. :smile:
Reply 9
Tell him you do anal and he'll get with you gay or not.
Reply 10
Imperfect
Tell him you do anal and he'll get with you gay or not.

How's that make sense...
Reply 11
Fleece
How's that make sense...


Funny enough, it does to me :laugh: :redface:
Reply 12
Ohhhh I just reread it with a comma after 'you' and I get it now. Haha.
Reply 13
He might like it both ways. Have you considered that possibility?

What's so attractive about a limp-wristed duckie that bitches about all the boys in your class anyway?
Reply 14
Duckie :laugh:

And a big nod to Lib North's post as well.
Reply 15
A casual way of finding out would be to talk about some clubs, and if there's a local gay club you know of, mention it, and say whether you've been or not, and see if he then goes onto say "I pulled in there". If he's gay & flamboyant, he won't be too bothered with people knowing about it.

It's not a sure fire indicator, but it's a good way of testing the waters!
Reply 16
Louenn
A casual way of finding out would be to talk about some clubs, and if there's a local gay club you know of, mention it, and say whether you've been or not, and see if he then goes onto say "I pulled in there". If he's gay & flamboyant, he won't be too bothered with people knowing about it.

It's not a sure fire indicator, but it's a good way of testing the waters!

That's not a fair test:p: . I went to a gay night and I bumped into a nice girl I know. Didn't really pull her but I'm sure there's something between us. I always meet her in the most random places lol.
Reply 17
Psyk
That's not a fair test:p: . I went to a gay night and I bumped into a nice girl I know. Didn't really pull her but I'm sure there's something between us. I always meet her in the most random places lol.


Maybe suggests similar interests, that. Get in there :cool:
Reply 18
Juwel
Maybe suggests similar interests, that. Get in there :cool:

Or she has a stalker.
Reply 19
paddylad
Or she has a stalker.


Oh dear :laugh: :s: