Is this normal?

Hey all. I know there are probably tonnes of threads on this, I've briefly scoured through and didn't really find anything, so I thought I'd ask. I've recently lost my virginity, and after having sex a few times it still bloody hurts! Of course I knew it was inevitable the first time, but I did expect it to get better. I just can't imagine it ever feeling pleasurable ;no; even lube didn't really help, though it was easier.

Thankies in advance

xx

Reply 1

Rosicky88

are you male or female?

Reply 2

Evil-Tuna

seems pretty much female to me. what with the xx etc.

Reply 3

everylittleting

Don't worry is was the same for me. And it has definitely got better.

Reply 4

tbm

Im sure it'll get better after time. Make sure you have lots of foreplay beforehand to make things easier!

Reply 5

Kate.

It hurt like the first 10 times for me. And it didn't start to actually get GOOD for a while after that, haha. It was okay, but not amazing and still uncomfortable sometimes =/

Reply 6

Lala_luv

I was having a discussion with a few of my cousins recently and apparently yes. But its supposed to go away after a few weeks. If I remember correctly you're also supposed to give at least a few days in between each time. errr.... yes, thats about all I can remember. Hope this helps!!