Men... how often?

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Your first time tends to be bumpy, awkward and over quickly when you're a guy, but never special and meaningful. It's only sex for gods sake...

Reply 25

Why are men turning into women?

Reply 26

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i've been with guys who can't keep their hands off me for more than five mins. My current bf, however, never seems to want me more than about once a week, if that. it sucks. big time.

Reply 27

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He's gay. Sorry to have to break the news.

Reply 28

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3232

He's gay. Sorry to have to break the news.

no, he's definitely not gay, i just don't think he's very sexually attracted to me. though he denies this. i know it's not him, it's me.

Reply 29

grace

no, he's definitely not gay, i just don't think he's very sexually attracted to me. though he denies this. i know it's not him, it's me.

How is that you? Even if that is the case, it's both of you, not just you.

Reply 30

welshandy

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i dont think its that he's not attracted.... purely sex drive id say.... everyones different and a mans sex drive changes all the time.
I've just come out of a long long relationship where she'd want sex twice a day... me usually about the same.. never more though. but now im single its a lot harder ('scuse the pun) to deal with not having sex often

Reply 31

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Squelchy

How is that you? Even if that is the case, it's both of you, not just you.

because i know that if he thought i was sexier, he'd have sex with me more. it's not a case of him having a low sex drive, it's me not fitting in with what he considers to be sexy.

Reply 32

grace

because i know that if he thought i was sexier, he'd have sex with me more. it's not a case of him having a low sex drive, it's me not fitting in with what he considers to be sexy.

What do you think specifically is the problem?

Reply 33

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grace

because i know that if he thought i was sexier, he'd have sex with me more. it's not a case of him having a low sex drive, it's me not fitting in with what he considers to be sexy.

If your profile pic even remotely represents what you actually look like then you really don't have a problem. Its not worth lowering your own self-esteem when it could be down to him having a low sex drive (or being ding-a-ling-a-ling :p:

).

Reply 34

welshandy

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its so not you being not sexy..... and to be completely honest. if it was.. id get rid of him as he needs his eyes tested.. but thats besides the point... when you have a low sex drive there is nothing in the world that will make you wanna have sex.. nothing...
when i had a low sex drive after a nasty operation it wouldnt have mattered if miss world or whatever was in front of me.. just wouldnt/couldnt

Reply 35

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welshandy

when i had a low sex drive after a nasty operation it wouldnt have mattered if miss world or whatever was in front of me.. just wouldnt/couldnt

Heh, i'm the complete opposite. I had sex two days after being discharged from hospital after nearly dying in a motorbike accident - i couldn't walk, couldn't sit up and slept for about 22-23 hours a day, but my sex drive was still there!

Reply 36

3232

Heh, i'm the complete opposite. I had sex two days after being discharged from hospital after nearly dying in a motorbike accident - i couldn't walk, couldn't sit up and slept for about 22-23 hours a day, but my sex drive was still there!

I've woken up with morning wood every morning without fail for the last 10 or more years.

It's great if you're not single. Not so good if you are.

Reply 37

Psyk

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Squelchy

I've woken up with morning wood every morning without fail for the last 10 or more years.

It's great if you're not single. Not so good if you are.

I dunno, can still be quite good when you're single!

Reply 38

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aww thanks, but to be honest everyone has different taste and i just really think i'm not to his taste. He loves me and adores me, i'd be a fool if i didn't realise that. He treats me like i'm some kind of angel, but i just don't think he sees me in a very sexual way. I think he really likes the 'stripper' look, you know, the big fake breasts, orange skin, platinum hair etc. He likes the overtly sexy look, which i just don't have.

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