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What to do?

ok heres the deal i'm on a gap year and the amount of activities and ppl i meet are quite limited now. When i was back at school i used to have contact with many ppl and there was lots of potential to meet girls who i hadn't even talked to yet.

Back in school i used to have a fair amount of attention from girls now because ii'm not in daily contact with many ppl i miss that thrill of having someone fancy me. It didn't happen all the time but about once every 3 months roughly someone new used to fancy me.

Anyway i have recently joined a sports club where i come in contact with ppl. There is a girl there that is about the same age as me, i don't really fancy her at all. But am tempted to ask her out and go out with her just to get that feeling of being with someone and all that comes with it. I know she will say yes if i do ask her out thats not a problem, i'm pretty confident about my seduction techniques theres no question about that.

But do ppl think its alright to go out with someone in these situations even if u don't fancy them.
Reply 1
I personally think it's wrong, you'd just use her to feel good about yourself!
Reply 2
Anonymous
I know she will say yes if i do ask her out thats not a problem, i'm pretty confident about my seduction techniques theres no question about that.
What's your secret? Rohypnol?
Reply 3
no thats wrong and illegal
Reply 4
Does this rag smell like chloroform to anybody?
I agree why go out with someone if you don't fancy them and only want them for seduction.
Reply 6
Anonymous
no thats wrong and illegal

Do you just punch her in places that aren't openly visible until she agrees to go out with you? What about a holding a bayonet to her womb?
Reply 7
thats not funny thats just sick. Are u sick in the head or what.

Anyway i'm sure ppl are just sayin that for reaction say what u want. but seriously i'm not useing her because i want a gf being with out one is borin. So thats not using her i could learn to like her.
Reply 8
Gman1617
i could learn to like her.
Yes, and learn how to spell and type in English you chav.
Gman1617
thats not funny thats just sick. Are u sick in the head or what.

Anyway i'm sure ppl are just sayin that for reaction say what u want. but seriously i'm not useing her because i want a gf being with out one is borin. So thats not using her i could learn to like her.



there goes anon as well
Reply 10
Just do her mate. It's all good fun.
Reply 11
No, it's not right.

You should only go out with someone if you have feelings for them, not just to satisfy any shortcomings.
Reply 12
Im in the same position in the way of gap year, but not in contact with anyone really (spesh guys), and yeah, I'd like to be with someone, but you don't see me going and latching on to the closest male I come into contact with :rolleyes: