help idea needed

okay so this is how it is, me n my bf have a long distance relationship and we normally chat on weekends however last weekend he told me if he can start going basketball club, meaning we would only chat one evey two weeks, now when i heard this i totally diagreed with him and asked him weather or not he was joking about the situation, anyway i think i over did it a bit and it was kinda sad on him too and he really wanted to go, now i want to say sorry to him however dont know how, what would be the best thing to do? i was thinking of sending a E-card saying sorry for how i reacted but im not sure if thats a good idea, can u guys help me please, i really dont know what to get him. Thank you

PS: im sorry if i made any mistakes during my poste

Reply 1

username47781

Well to be honest how come you can only chat at weekends, surely you can make the odd phone call during the week or talk over messenger.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

well the thing is we have such a big time difference, by the time i come back from school its like V late his time, however we do make calls but on the weekend, during the weekdays its just mail.

Reply 3

username47781

Oh so you both live in a different country country?

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

umm yes.

and thats the thing, i cant just go and say sorry, what shall i give him?

Reply 5

username47781

Postcard maybe? where did you both meet?

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

postcard, i'm not sure anyother opinions?

well he was actually a family friend thing and we didnt live far from each other, but he moved there about a year ago

Reply 7

Oren

he needs to get out and socialise at uni to make some new friends, besdes everyone joins loads of clubs in their first term and yet no1 goes to them after christmas, just weather this period. I know you want to talk to him more, but he's got to live somewhere alien to him so he's gotta make friends there too!!

Reply 8

Oren

oh and as for idea's try a letter, nice and easy, very personal!!

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

ya i know but we had already cut the chatting to about one per week and once per fourtnight wasnt good, for the both us, but thanks :smile:

i gess i need to view it from his side too, umm a letter..well its a cool idea but i dont really want his parennts reading it or anyone else in his family, i was thinking more on the internet kinda thing