This discussion is now closed.

Check out other Related discussions

Met an amazing girl

I met up with an amazing girl today that I have known for a while. We spoke a lot today, and I have just found that we have A LOT in common...My predicament is that she is staying in campus, whereas I am not; so I would like to take things further if she is willing too, but I just don't know how. She is going out later tonight, I am very tempted in texting her and asking if I could come along, but I just feel quite embarassed, because it just seems to be such a blatent give away.

What should I do? Cheers.

Reply 1

kam

10

Send her a txt asking if she would like to meet up tonight.
If she likes you, she'll text back saying where she's going and ask you if you'd like to come along.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

kam

Send her a txt asking if she would like to meet up tonight.
If she likes you, she'll text back saying where she's going and ask you if you'd like to come along.

Yeah I suppose your right. She kinda hinted it a minute ago that she wants me to come along, like I gave a hug and then she said <bar name>, as in implying come along to <bar name>. But its just far too ambigious for my liking in order to draw any conclusions.

Reply 3

lil one

2

aww at thread title, so cute..

goodluck x

Reply 4

LilyKM

1

If she seemed as positive about your encounter today as you are then i'm sure she would love for you to go along with her. Is she going out with a group of friends? If she is, can't you get a mate to go along so you can all go as one big group. That way you wont look like a tag-along or you could even try to find out where she is going to be and say that you could meet up at some point. If your too shy to even do that, ask her to recommend a good place to go, and if she is into you, she will probably recommend one of the places she's going, and invite you along. Good luck. hope it works out

Reply 5

LilyKM

1

ohh just read your last comment. She wants you to go. Just say you would like to

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

LilyKM

If she seemed as positive about your encounter today as you are then i'm sure she would love for you to go along with her. Is she going out with a group of friends? If she is, can't you get a mate to go along so you can all go as one big group. That way you wont look like a tag-along or you could even try to find out where she is going to be and say that you could meet up at some point. If your too shy to even do that, ask her to recommend a good place to go, and if she is into you, she will probably recommend one of the places she's going. Good luck. hope it works out

Thats the thing, I really don't want to introduce her to my male mates; not yet anyway. Done so in the past, had a bad experience; like they would just be so blatent. As for my female mates, I dunno if they will be busy or not, I guess I will have to give them a bell.

Yeah it seems as though she will be with a group of people tonight for sure. I will probably not know any of them.

Reply 7

Sezkin

11

Just go for it. She sounds interested in you! :biggrin:

Good luck.

Reply 8

Martyn1989

So...did you go?

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

Martyn1989

So...did you go?

Yeah, I went :smile:

...Didn't want to make it so blatently obvious that I went for her, so I met up with my mates; some of which happen to goto that bar regularly (as an excuse to see her and try and get to know her better)....I texted her to tell her that I will prob be there with my mates and that I would probably see her if shes there (she didnt text back)...she wasn't there either, probably out clubbing; genius!

I had a great night anyway, a shame though I couldn't get to know her better, due to the circumstances (i.e. her not being there).

No idea on what to do now, not too keen in texting her, as she didnt text me back last night for whatever reason.

Met an amazing girl

Related discussions

Articles for you

How The Student Room is moderated