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Never Masturbated

No, this is not a joke:redface: (I'm a girl, by the way)
I just keep hearing "everybody does it, it's perfectly natural" etc. Is this really true? Please tell me that there are girls out there who haven't either??!
I apologise for the thread, I just don't think that my new uni friends know me quite well enough for me to ask (and somehow, I doubt they'd be in the same situation :biggrin: ), and I've always wanted to know this.
Thanks all!
Reply 1
I think that there are probably more girls that dont masturbate than do, so I wouldnt worry about it.
Reply 2
clueless101
I think that there are probably more girls that dont masturbate than do, so I wouldnt worry about it.


I don't buy that....
Reply 3
Does it matter? Why are you even asking?
If you want to, then do it. If you don't, don't.
Girls tend to avoid talking about it like guys, but I'd say more girls do than you think...but there's plenty that don't.
Reply 4
nah i think almost allgirls will have masturbated at one time or another...
Reply 5
I think most girls/women will have masturbated at some point...its just more acceptable for men to talk about it. But if you haven't and you haven't wanted to then thats fine, no reason why you should especially.
Reply 6
Give it a crack (so to speak).
Why are you so bothered by it? If you don't want to then thats up to you. Does it matter if anyone else is doing it or not.

Some girls will be very open about masturbation while others will do it but deny it.
Reply 8
The point of the thread being?
It's more of a taboo for girls to talk about it so inevitably you're going to get far less admitting it
Reply 10
A Y Z
The point of the thread being?

As I said initially, I just always wanted to know this! It's not like I'm suddenly going to go to Ann Summers and pick up a Rampant Rabbit to "conform", I just wondered whether girls just see as some kind of rebellion against the female stereotype to say that they all do it, or whether it was the case that everybody did! I'm not particularly bothered about it, I was just curious...no need to be so callous.
Its not about conforming though.. we all have to release sometime if you dont have a partner how else are you suppose to do that? Do it if you want, if you dont fine.
It's not even just that, it's how the heck can you expect a guy to pleasure you if you don't even know what you like yourself!
Reply 13
some people do some dont, theres no right or wrong.
Anonymous
No, this is not a joke:redface: (I'm a girl, by the way)
I just keep hearing "everybody does it, it's perfectly natural" etc. Is this really true? Please tell me that there are girls out there who haven't either??!
I apologise for the thread, I just don't think that my new uni friends know me quite well enough for me to ask (and somehow, I doubt they'd be in the same situation :biggrin: ), and I've always wanted to know this.
Thanks all!


I spent my whole time up until the age of 16 thinking it was a disgusting thing for girls to do... and then when at a party i found out i was the only girl who hadn't!
and then i went home and did it... and it wasn't that great.
Reply 15
Anonymous
I spent my whole time up until the age of 16 thinking it was a disgusting thing for girls to do... and then when at a party i found out i was the only girl who hadn't!
and then i went home and did it... and it wasn't that great.

Practise.
Reply 16
It doesnt matter if you do or you dont. No one will or should think any different of you... but you only know if your gona like it if you try it!
Reply 17
i believe it was my best friend ( a girl btw) who said .. you can never expect a man to please you if you dont have a clue what you like yourself.. as men are complete twits ..
she had a point to be honest... but each to their own
Reply 18
welshandy
i believe it was my best friend ( a girl btw) who said .. you can never expect a man to please you if you dont have a clue what you like yourself.. as men are complete twits ..
she had a point to be honest... but each to their own


For some people it's just not the same though. But to the OP, no it doesn't make you a freak if you don't do it - if it's not something that turns you on, you shouldn't feel you "have" to. And I think that's enough of this thread, you've got your answers :smile: