No, this is not a joke (I'm a girl, by the way) I just keep hearing "everybody does it, it's perfectly natural" etc. Is this really true? Please tell me that there are girls out there who haven't either??! I apologise for the thread, I just don't think that my new uni friends know me quite well enough for me to ask (and somehow, I doubt they'd be in the same situation ), and I've always wanted to know this. Thanks all!
Does it matter? Why are you even asking? If you want to, then do it. If you don't, don't. Girls tend to avoid talking about it like guys, but I'd say more girls do than you think...but there's plenty that don't.
I think most girls/women will have masturbated at some point...its just more acceptable for men to talk about it. But if you haven't and you haven't wanted to then thats fine, no reason why you should especially.
As I said initially, I just always wanted to know this! It's not like I'm suddenly going to go to Ann Summers and pick up a Rampant Rabbit to "conform", I just wondered whether girls just see as some kind of rebellion against the female stereotype to say that they all do it, or whether it was the case that everybody did! I'm not particularly bothered about it, I was just curious...no need to be so callous.
Its not about conforming though.. we all have to release sometime if you dont have a partner how else are you suppose to do that? Do it if you want, if you dont fine.
No, this is not a joke (I'm a girl, by the way) I just keep hearing "everybody does it, it's perfectly natural" etc. Is this really true? Please tell me that there are girls out there who haven't either??! I apologise for the thread, I just don't think that my new uni friends know me quite well enough for me to ask (and somehow, I doubt they'd be in the same situation ), and I've always wanted to know this. Thanks all!
I spent my whole time up until the age of 16 thinking it was a disgusting thing for girls to do... and then when at a party i found out i was the only girl who hadn't! and then i went home and did it... and it wasn't that great.
I spent my whole time up until the age of 16 thinking it was a disgusting thing for girls to do... and then when at a party i found out i was the only girl who hadn't! and then i went home and did it... and it wasn't that great.
i believe it was my best friend ( a girl btw) who said .. you can never expect a man to please you if you dont have a clue what you like yourself.. as men are complete twits .. she had a point to be honest... but each to their own
i believe it was my best friend ( a girl btw) who said .. you can never expect a man to please you if you dont have a clue what you like yourself.. as men are complete twits .. she had a point to be honest... but each to their own
For some people it's just not the same though. But to the OP, no it doesn't make you a freak if you don't do it - if it's not something that turns you on, you shouldn't feel you "have" to. And I think that's enough of this thread, you've got your answers