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Reply 1
Plastic surgery?
What is it that makes you ugly?
Reply 2
Get exceedingly rich. You could look like David Beckham, have the body of a Greek god, be a kind and generous person, an amazing lover, charming, witty and love animals, and you'd still never get 1% as far with women as Hugh Heffner/The Rolling Stones/Peter Stringfellow etc. have.
Reply 3
start weight lifting... it will get you all the attention you'll ever want... add in a 6 pac and you'll have a lovely teenage life.
Piccy!!
Reply 5
Four dumbass posts, followed with something intelligent...

forgive me for my modesty



Now here's a little tip: Attracting girls has got nothing to do with looks.. Build up your personality... try being more outgoing and confident if you're a shy guy.
Reply 6
paper bag?

it doesnt matter, chances are youre not as ugly as you think you are, everyone can see their own faults when others probably would never notice
I suggest you post your pic so we can best advise you :wink:
Reply 8
anjurdsg
Now here's a little tip: Attracting girls has got nothing to do with looks..

You have got to be joking. Poor lucks can be overcome, but truly good looks will always be a spectacular advantage.
Attracting girls has got nothing to do with looks..


Dear Oh dear. You really dont have a clue do you? I mean seriously... can you say anything that is more false? Maybe your trying to cheer up the OP, which is then understandable.

OP, work on things u can change about urself - ur body and ur personality. WIth a good personality, you can do pretty much anything, get a good job, a good life and girls will come..

WHo told you you were ugly anyway?
Reply 10
Squelchy
You have got to be joking. Poor lucks can be overcome, but truly good looks will always be a spectacular advantage.
it does give you an advantage, yes, but that doesnt mean that just coz you're not drop-dead handsome you will not attract girls
But being ugly acts as a repellent. You could have the personality of a stand up comedian but if you’re so god ugly that no one approaches you, and people flee when you approach them, what you gonna do?
Reply 12
anjurdsg
it does give you an advantage, yes, but that doesnt mean that just coz you're not drop-dead handsome you will not attract girls

I don't think anybody said it did, but your contention that looks have nothing to do with attracting women is absolutely preposterous. Women may be less visual than men when it comes to attraction, but they're still human beings, and a good looking man will always have a fantastic advantage over average or ugly men when it comes to attracting women. It's common sense.
Reply 13
The only time i have ever seen a properly ugly person get laid is when there was an enormous amount of alcohol involved.
Reply 14
Princess_Peach
But being ugly acts as a repellent. You could have the personality of a stand up comedian but if you’re so god ugly that no one approaches you, and people flee when you approach them, what you gonna do?
clearly, clearly, if you have a personality of a stand-up comedian, people ARE gonna leave aside the looks... so yes, people are gonna like you

you have a very biased opinion on ugly people... NO ONE runs away from ugly people if they have great personalities
Reply 15
Squelchy
I don't think anybody said it did, but your contention that looks have nothing to do with attracting women is absolutely preposterous. Women may be less visual than men when it comes to attraction, but they're still human beings, and a good looking man will always have a fantastic advantage over average or ugly men when it comes to attracting women. It's common sense.
and if the average/ugly man has a far better personality than the handsome man??
Reply 16
theres always someone out there for everyone.. sounds corny but its true...

i hate it when people say they are / or other people are ugly....
but i am realistic.. good looks are a big advantage .. its the first impression you get from anyone..

but equally important is personality.... looks are a two minute thing ... but personality is what makes people stay interested
Ok.
I'm going to be honest now - good looks do get you noticed and may be the first thing that attract a girl to you.
The best thing I can suggest is find someone good looking to be friends with.
Then when you see a group of girls you can go over and talk to them together. Chances are if your friends good looking he's a ******/devoid of any sort of personality/ can think of nothing better to do than show them various injuries he's sustained playing rugby. That's where you jump in and save them with some decent conversation.
A good personality does come through in your looks - I know loads of really pretty girls who date less attractive men 'cause they're really nice/funny/intelligent guys who treat them well.


I'm quite desperate if it gets really bad....
Reply 18
anjurdsg
clearly, clearly, if you have a personality of a stand-up comedian, people ARE gonna leave aside the looks... so yes, people are gonna like you

you have a very biased opinion on ugly people... NO ONE runs away from ugly people if they have great personalities

People will like you, but in that "I want to be friends with them" way. Funny, ugly guys are the ones who end up being the best friend, and quietly pining away for the girl. Some girls can overlook a really ugly face, but it's still a severe disadvantage.

Equally, I know handsome guys who have got away with murder because of their looks. Most women probably wouldn't be able to deal with a crap personality, even if the guy had amazing looks, but speaking plainly, being ugly is a massive disadvantage when it comes to attracting women, and being good looking is a huge advantage. It's that simple.
Reply 19
icantthinkofacoolusername
Ok.
I'm going to be honest now - good looks do get you noticed and may be the first thing that attract a girl to you.
The best thing I can suggest is find someone good looking to be friends with.
Then when you see a group of girls you can go over and talk to them together. Chances are if your friends good looking he's a ******/devoid of any sort of personality/ can think of nothing better to do than show them various injuries he's sustained playing rugby. That's where you jump in and save them with some decent conversation.
A good personality does come through in your looks - I know loads of really pretty girls who date less attractive men 'cause they're really nice/funny/intelligent guys who treat them well.


I'm quite desperate if it gets really bad....
:dito:

there's an expanded form of what i was trying to say

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