Basically, neither of us expected to be having sex that night, so I was a bit embarrassed at the fact my underwear didn't match and my legs were a bit stubbly! I didn't feel particularly sexy, and then he was a bit too large to get it in so we had to stop and I went down on him which he seemed to really enjoy. We then had sex again and he came in about 30 seconds.
It was probably some of the worst sex I've ever had in my life and afterwards I was just like 'Don't worry, its usually awkward the first time with a new person'. To which he was sarcastically like 'Thanks'. I was talking about both of us being awkward, though! He is a very very sensitive person. He seemed fine the next morning though and was talking about the next time and me inviting him over to mine etc and then as I said he texted me almost immediately after. He was fine until Saturday night... that's when he started blanking me.
He has actually sent me a text now, last night, but it was very distant and sounded like he couldn't be arsed. It took him over 24 hours to get back to me. I really want to ask whats wrong but I don't know how to do it without sounding needy.