Love her emotionally but not physically

Anonymous #1

What should I do if I love my girlfriend, but I'm not sexually attracted to her any longer?

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Find someone else.

Well, I would say emotional excitement is worth WAY more than sexual, but that's just me

Reply 3

Toy Soldier

You can't have a healthy relationship without some form of physical attraction.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

It will be so hard leaving her as I still love her. In fact, we sort of broke up earlier tonight. But I'm desperate to call her and tell her that I love her (she doesn't think I still love her)

Reply 5

bone-machine

hmm....what is it exactly that has made you think like this?...has something changed in her appearance i nthe last few months or have you just grown not to find her attractive anymore?..id say breaking up with her would be a mistake until you try some other options..my advice would be to suggest 'spicing' things up (if your relationship is sexual...getting her new lingerie,) or maybe taking her somewhere fancy for dinner so she'll make an effort and then compliment her lots..then maybe shell get the hint?

this is tricky, but whatever you do if you love her (or even if you dont for that matterP)please dont let on that you dont find her physically attractive anymore ..especially if worse came to worse you did decide to break up with ehr ...it would be CRUSHING

Reply 6

Evil-Tuna

if you sort of broke up then I doubt girlfriend is the term to be using any longer.

Reply 7

kam

Talk to her..
If you don't find her attractive anymore, then stay as friends.

Reply 8

bone-machine

kam

Talk to her...

yes...but DONT say that you dont find ehr attractive anymore something like ' i feel were losing our spark' or something....and dont tell other peopel either becuase gossip spreads...if i ws ever told that any of my xhad broken up with me because they didnt find me physically attractive anymore it would destroy my confidence for a very very very long time.

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Anonymous #1

bone-machine

hmm....what is it exactly that has made you think like this?...has something changed in her appearance i nthe last few months or have you just grown not to find her attractive anymore?..

I don't know really... we met at a summer course here in munich (where we live) and while I was "newly in love" I was crazy about her, sure she wasn't the hottest (physically) I've seen... but I saw her personality and all that... now recently it has started to affect me. I love her but when I'm with her I don't feel that "sexual thing"...