That;s so right. All four of them are true and i can not apply them to any of my mates. I could do in the past to one friend but she has changed a great deal.(Original post by Anonymous)
yes i had the same problem i couldnt and still cant trust any of my "friends" and i wouldnt call your "friends" friends as they show no signs of true friendship but these days its really rare to find a true friend everyone ends up backstabbing u one way or another u need to look for the key elements in friendship which im still looking for
2.) would sacrifice for u
3.) would obviously help u and be there for u in no time when things are going wrong
4.) would keep u happy
I don't think I'll ever find someone who hold them qualtities its really sad.
I have seen my councellor once, she was just gob smacked with what I was telling her about all the crap I've been through the last few so years. It's so hard for her to give any advise as when i talk I practia;ly give my self advise she says. But actions (using the advise) itsjust so hard.(Original post by Anonymous)
ofcourse u dont want someone to just listen and be a vegetable u need someone who can help u too and understand ur needs ...mind u theres a lack of understanding in todays society no offence to anyone.
But it is the truth.
Im sure its very difficult for u if u would like i can give u my email address and if u need me id be more than willing to help on the side note i had a councellor she left and i loved her i liked her a lot not in that sensce but she did help me a great deal also does councelling help u anyway? when my councellor left i didnt wnt to see another because i had opened up to her so much that i couldnt bear speaking to another stranger and getting time to know them.
Id say meet new people and forget ur so called friends. as they dont seem like friends they seem like gossip mongerers whatever that is
havr you got msn?
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