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confused-ex-boyfriends friend?!

ahhh, i don't know how i feel so thought if i wrote it down it might be easier.
i was with a guy for bout 9 months, we broke up bout a months ago-he treated me like poo when we were together and basically made a fool out of me.
now his mate keeps trying to get me to go for a drink with him, i really want to but don't kno if this is because
1, it'll really annoy my ex
2, i like him
3, i'm lonely and he's just there

any kind of advice would be welcomed xxx
Reply 1
Who cares? If you think you might like him, then go for it!

I must say, his mate sounds like scum for going for his mate's ex though. In my book, that's a complete no no.
Do you actually like this guy? Or do you want to get back at you ex?
He must like you alot because sometimes best friends exes are like "off limits".
Reply 3
i kno, a mates ex is a def no no for me too! just don't know what to think?
my head is going round in little circles:confused: :confused:
Just meet up with him for a drink and see how it goes! Dont worry about what your ex thinks, you shouldnt give him the time of the day after how he treated you!
Reply 5
if its only a drink, its only a drink, personally i wouldnt trust him, you dont knw what ur ex has told him.