Is this a normal problem? (Bit graphic)

I had sex with my bf for the first time on Saturday; the first time was painful, but he entered me most of the way.

When we tried again later on that night and again in the morning we couldn't sort of between us get him in the right place...he lost his errection once, but I later helped him into the right place but rather than go in, he slipped down in between my legs.

Is there anyway we can help this from happening again? I don't feel confident to to go on top yet...

Reply 1

Squelchy

For a start, you could take more time with foreplay to make sure you're relaxed enough for him to enter.

Reply 2

Claire_Elizabeth

Practice makes perfect!

Reply 3

PUMPER_REFLUX

Squelchy

For a start, you could take more time with foreplay to make sure you're relaxed enough for him to enter.

u are a prev at 22 dont u have anything better to do with your time

PUMPER_REFLUX

u are a prev at 22 dont u have anything better to do with your time

Ummmmmm, I like to dress up as a woman and get spanked by rich Japanese businessmen on most weekday nights.

Does that count?

Reply 6

Doodahdoo

PUMPER_REFLUX

u are a prev at 22 dont u have anything better to do with your time

Haha. What?

To the OP - just chill. It was your first time, they aren't always great with fireworks and stuff. Don't let it put you off - just keep trying, and try to stay calm - as people have said, foreplay is a good idea to calm you down.
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Reply 7

FrenchGal

Simulatio

as people have said, foreplay is a good idea to calm you down.
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Or put the heat on. But that's what the OP's looking for anyway... :p:

Reply 8

alexdg

Yer practice is the way forward, but maybe if your ontop and you use your hand to guide it, or he uses his from behind, (sorry a lil graphic)!

Thats assuming your not too tight. If you are too tight then try loosening yourself by fingering a bit and lots and lots of foreplay!!!

Reply 9

robot_overlord

PUMPER_REFLUX

u are a prev at 22 dont u have anything better to do with your time

As a general observation this is the stupidest comment ever.

1) Its exclusive. Why the hell shouldn't ANYONE reply? If they can answer the question then their input is just as valid as yours.
2) I can only assume the objection comes from the age. In that case, once again, the objection is stupid. As I see this primarily as a forum for University go-ers then 22 is the age when you could be in Postgraduate or Third Year assuming you took a gap year of even only one year.
3) Just... flaming is dumb, don't do it. If you have nothing nice to say...