Seeing Exes Unappreciation Thread

Saw my ex today after a good few weeks with nearly no contact

Way too awkward for my liking. Just when I thought I was completely over her!

Reply 1

kam

Did she see you?

Don't worry about it. Seeing as she's your ex, leave her as a memory.

Reply 2

Jehuty^

Yeah, I saw my ex last night. Made my heart jump :rolleyes:

Best thing you can do is just try to move on, try making some new friends and get your mind off of her

Reply 3

maag101

My ex is being so clingy (texting and calling) that I don't *want* to see him. Shame really, as he's quite a nice bloke.

Reply 4

username47781

Until i left my job at work, i had dumped my ex like 2 years ago but i still saw her coming in and staring at me, only thing it did to me was make me angry after the way she had treated me.

Reply 5

Claire_Elizabeth

Seeing an ex can be hard! If I see my ex i get a funny feeling, but chances are they are probably feel the same way. All depends on how long you were with them and how you felt about him/her.

Reply 6

username47781

Well i also remember going to a concert in June and i saw an ex there, i had not seen her for 5 years, and it was a messy split we had and she made it clear she didn't want to talk to me again, yet when i saw her i ignored her but amazingly few days later she sent an email moaning and saying why did i not talk to her.

Reply 7

Dragon24

I dated one guy for 4 months (long distance) saw him once every 2 weeks and he found it acceptable to tell me to ***** off if i wanted to see him and that his parents pub was more important - so I got rid :biggrin:

Bad thing is he has moved back to the area so I dread bumping into him in the local nightclub. If I did I would probably ignore him or stay with my friends as I have nothing to say to that awful person.

Reply 8

Sazarina88

I've seen my ex twice (I think) since I broke up with him in August and that was just to give things back to him, get some closure etc. I'm not too bothered to be honest and I don't think he is either, we've both moved on. We did say we would stay friends but it just didn't turn out that way.

Reply 9

myrtille

It can be horribly awkward at first... Me and my ex stayed friends after he broke up with me, but I still really liked him, which made it awkward. But I'm finally over him, and feel much more able to be friends with him now. Will be seeing him when I go home from uni next weekend. He's probably my closest friend now...

Reply 10

chandni

My x came to stay 4 the weekend coz we decided to break up and then be friends a bit later and we ended up doing coupley stuff even though neither of us wants to b a couple again... ah confusion regns supreme.

Reply 11

bone-machine

seeing exes when your looking hot in heels and with guys giving you the eye right infront of them is cool, seeing exes when your looking rough, unwashed hair and redfaced after running into the tube is NOT cool.

Reply 12

squigaletta

Me n my ex did the awful thin gof dragging it out, and everytime our paths crossed we'd end up making out and being all couply. Not a good idea at all.

Reply 13

~Sam~

I'm kinda feeling the opposite...I really want to see my ex, although I know its a bad idea :frown:

Reply 14

OrlÃ¡ith

~Sam~

I'm kinda feeling the opposite...I really want to see my ex, although I know its a bad idea :frown:

:dito:

Reply 15

Anonymous #2

Heh, turns out the route I walk to uni crosses with my ex's. I see her everyday, walking in with her boyfriend - the one she two timed with me.

It makes me angry. Raaar.

Reply 16

Anonymous #3

when i saw my ex after 3weeks of hardly ne contact it was like nothing had changed which makes it harder to get over him cos we did stuff that bfs and gfs do. i felt like we were a couple again

Reply 17

Rusty33

Went to my exes house the other night to drop off some things that she had left at my apartment. She was the "one" and this has been an on and off thing for about three years now. I waited about 2 months to drop this stuff off. Thought, for the first time, I was really truly over her.

Then, I saw her, and I'm back at square one. I feel your pain. :frown: