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question for girls about penis size.

Men are always so fixated on the size, but good sex has very little to do with that from a female perspective, especially as most women far prefer clitoral stimulation to penetration anyway as that's how they get off. Obviously there are exceptions, but stats show most of us are built that way. So get better at that, and no girl will care about your size. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that sex is only about your penis, it really isn't.

it can work both ways yknow, mine is around the 7 inch mark and some girls have said to me its a little too big, i may have to do them from behind.
whereas im sure there are some big-vaginaed ones out there that demand minimum of 8 plus inches( but they arnt the sort of girl that i want to be with)

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Antifazian

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Original post by iEatMuFFiNS

So... you're saying you don't orgasm from sex?

If you are taking sex wrongly to just mean penetration, then no - most women do not orgasm that way.

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Antifazian

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Original post by Thuggee

it can work both ways yknow, mine is around the 7 inch mark and some girls have said to me its a little too big, i may have to do them from behind.
whereas im sure there are some big-vaginaed ones out there that demand minimum of 8 plus inches( but they arnt the sort of girl that i want to be with)

That's not really relevant to what I said, I said it's not all about the penis size for many women, big or small...

Reply 23

CatnipGlows

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Original post by Antifazian

If you are taking sex wrongly to just mean penetration, then no - most women do not orgasm that way.

I do..

But yeah, penis size isn't that important. Average is best, too big and it hurts.

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rosebud114

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THE BIGGER THE BETTER OBVIOUSLY.

JOKING! honestly most women don't care, plus if your really insecure then if you know how to use your mouth and fingers properly you still win :wink:

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McMurdo

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Original post by sdotd

4 or under is small

5 or under is small, surely... Are you saying a penis that is 4 and a half inches is average? Lol. Even the mid 5 mark is in the smaller side.

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Anonymous #3

Original post by McMurdo

5 or under is small, surely... Are you saying a penis that is 4 and a half inches is average? Lol. Even the mid 5 mark is in the smaller side.

Lol bro can't you see he was trolling... Clearly anything under 8 inches is in the smaller side. My penis is 9 inches and most of my friends have penises over 8 inches. I personally only know a few unlucky folk who have it smaller than that.

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Brachioradialis

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Original post by rosebud114

honestly most women don't care, plus if your really insecure then if you know how to use your mouth and fingers properly you still win :wink:

This as well. If you've made a girl orgasm before even having sex, I doubt she'll be too arsed about penis size.

Reply 28

Triple-Sod

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Original post by Antifazian

Men are always so fixated on the size, but good sex has very little to do with that from a female perspective, especially as most women far prefer clitoral stimulation to penetration anyway as that's how they get off. Obviously there are exceptions, but stats show most of us are built that way. So get better at that, and no girl will care about your size. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that sex is only about your penis, it really isn't.

Says it all really...lol

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McMurdo

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Original post by Anonymous

Lol bro can't you see he was trolling... Clearly anything under 8 inches is in the smaller side. My penis is 9 inches and most of my friends have penises over 8 inches. I personally only know a few unlucky folk who have it smaller than that.

Lol, no, you're clearly the troll :tongue:

I think 6 is average, 6.5 is over average. 7-8 is big. 8+ is huge. You need to stop measuring from underneath your balls :wink:

I'm slightly over 7, but I don't stick the ruler into my stomach when I measure like a lot of guys probably do.

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rosebud114

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Original post by MJK91

This as well. If you've made a girl orgasm before even having sex, I doubt she'll be too arsed about penis size.

Exactly! Plus many women's anatomy doesn't allow them to have internal orgasms so whether you have a 12 inch penis or a 2 inch penis...it doesn't really matter because she won't be able to reach one. Most women can have really good external orgasms so if your good with your technique, she will feel good.

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Paulska_

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Original post by McMurdo

Lol, no, you're clearly the troll :tongue:

I think 6 is average, 6.5 is over average. 7-8 is big. 8+ is huge. You need to stop measuring from underneath your balls :wink:

I'm slightly over 7, but I don't stick the ruler into my stomach when I measure like a lot of guys probably do.

You have a very skewed idea about what average size is, no offence :P the world average is 5-5.5inches so 6 would be slightly bigger etc...

However, I honestly think it barely matters, women very rarely orgasm from penetrative sex, it's more to do with clitoral stimulation... The fixation with size is largely unfounded!

(Interesting fact: ancient Greeks and Romans tended to believe that a small penis with larger testicles was the most aesthetically pleasing way to look down there! It just depends on the individual, but most women will say it doesn't really matter :smile:

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Reply 32

McMurdo

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Original post by Paulska_

You have a very skewed idea about what average size is, no offence :P the world average is 5-5.5inches so 6 would be slightly bigger etc...

However, I honestly think it barely matters, women very rarely orgasm from penetrative sex, it's more to do with clitoral stimulation... The fixation with size is largely unfounded!

(Interesting fact: ancient Greeks and Romans tended to believe that a small penis with larger testicles was the most aesthetically pleasing way to look down there! It just depends on the individual, but most women will say it doesn't really matter :smile:

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I've heard the global average is just over 5 inches - it's just that I find it somewhat hard to believe, lol. Then again, I'm a big guy in general, so maybe that's why. On my body, mine looks pretty average proportionately.

Also, I'm aware that clitoral stimulation is the most important part for the woman; however, even if psychological, most girls I know/have known, have said that bigger still felt better than small ones. I'm not talking insanely huge, but over average. They said they felt 'fuller'. I do, however,think it's partly psychological, because my ex said it would often hurt when we had sex, yet she still preferred my larger size to her previous ex's.

As for the point about the ancient civilisations, I studied classics, so I'm well aware of this :tongue:

however, times certainly have changed. That was a tedious part of my degree...(writing about statues and busts lol)

Reply 33

Mankytoes

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I find it funny how these threads are always full of guys saying "I've got a very big dick, it isn't that great". Where are all the below average guys!?

Men focus on the wrong things. A skilled tongue will get you further than a big dick.

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Antifazian

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Original post by abbiemac

I do..

But yeah, penis size isn't that important. Average is best, too big and it hurts.

You're so lucky then, I just googled it quickly but it said something like only 7% of women are able to!

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CatnipGlows

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Original post by Antifazian

You're so lucky then, I just googled it quickly but it said something like only 7% of women are able to!

Yeah it's something to do with stimulating the clit without actually trying to (so no intended contact), I'm not 100% sure how it works though.. but yeah it's pretty damn good

Reply 36

opearlescent

Thickness is more important but idk it does matter to some degree, just not completely.

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Birkenhead

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Original post by Anonymous

citation needed

Two of many below. Why are you anonymous?

Hunting as a way of life does not require speech but requires excellent visual–spatial skills and, thus, contributed to a male visual–spatial superiority

http://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1001834404611