The Student Room Group

Room sharing

Yo.

At the weekend I booked this hotel room for me and my mate (we're both male) to stay at after a party. It had two seperate rooms, one single and one double bed.

Anyway this girl who is my friend didn't have anywhere to stay, so I offered for her to share with us. My mate took the single bed and we shared the double. I didn't try anything on with her.. but should I have offered her the single bed?? I'm pretty confused, was it rude not to? As soon as we got back to the room I was just like "I'm knackered, I'm just gonna go to bed". Was this rude? Something is up, but I can't see what I've done wrong.

Reply 1

well, maybe she DID want something with you... but then she should have made that more clear. I thnks its more rude of your mate not to offer her the single bed, but if she was okay with sharing with you, why not?

Reply 2

What has she said/done to make you think something is up?

Maybe she WANTED you to do something! :smile:

Reply 3

lindindin
well, maybe she DID want something with you... but then she should have made that more clear. I thnks its more rude of your mate not to offer her the single bed, but if she was okay with sharing with you, why not?


My mate wouldn't of offered her the bed as he wouldn't of wanted to hinder my chances of something happening with her.

Reply 4

haha oh dear :p:

Reply 5

Well I just text her saying "Did I do something wrong this weekend?"

Reply 6

doesnt sound like you did anything wrong

Reply 7

She's the one being silly, not you.

Reply 8

As a girlie, I'd appreciate not being lept on when getting into bed. But if I wanted something to happen, I'd make it clear (by snuggling upto the bloke, etc). If she didn't make any moves in your direction, then don't worry. And if she is still being silly, just ask her if she's got something she needs to say to you.

Reply 9

hehe this thread makes me think happy thoughts about when i slept on a sofa with two other people. we were all a bit cold from a night time swim in the paddling pool and kinda tipsy so we just all snuggled up in dressing gowns and fell asleep in front of alien :smile:

and because the person in the middle was a guy we still make threesome jokes :p: