people pointing out your flaws?

"You look shattered".

Thanks mate!

(Happens quite frequently and sometimes from complete strangers).

Like you, I don't understand why people feel the need to do it and I don't do it myself.

this is a random post but ive been thinking about it lately.

do you ever find that people will randomly point out flaws with your physical appearance?

i mean random things that you arent really in control of, such as say teeth imperfections (i have two small white spots on my front teeth, theyre not a big deal, but people still point it out and its kinda like and?)

its like if someone has a mole on their face, there are some people who just have to say things like "you have a mole". personally i dont do this to people, i dont really see the need to point out things that im sure people are aware is on their face/body. (im not saying moles are a flaw but you know what i mean).

why do you think people feel the need to do this?

is it just a weird power trip thing, putting people down by pointing out their flaws?

no one is perfect and i think sometimes the little things that make us different are better than everyone all looking the same.

i dont understand what people could gain from pointing stuff out to people though.

Yeah my mum does it a lot. She will mention my teeth or a spot I have on my nose or something like that. It doesn't bother me though because I am content with my look and I know she isn't saying it to be malicious. It would hurt more when my gran used to do it because she is very obsessed with image and if I had one strand of hair out of place she would moan or if I was slightly bloated she would tell I should lose weight. She's stopped now but that was annoying when I was younger. Now I would probably laugh it off though.

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How do you become content with how u look?

this is a random post but ive been thinking about it lately.

do you ever find that people will randomly point out flaws with your physical appearance?

i mean random things that you arent really in control of, such as say teeth imperfections (i have two small white spots on my front teeth, theyre not a big deal, but people still point it out and its kinda like and?)

its like if someone has a mole on their face, there are some people who just have to say things like "you have a mole". personally i dont do this to people, i dont really see the need to point out things that im sure people are aware is on their face/body. (im not saying moles are a flaw but you know what i mean).

why do you think people feel the need to do this?

is it just a weird power trip thing, putting people down by pointing out their flaws?

no one is perfect and i think sometimes the little things that make us different are better than everyone all looking the same.

i dont understand what people could gain from pointing stuff out to people though.

"You look shattered".

Thanks mate!

(Happens quite frequently and sometimes from complete strangers).

Like you, I don't understand why people feel the need to do it and I don't do it myself.

I mean obviously people are going to point out your flaws to be mean but a lot of people just like to state what they see especially if it's different to what they are use too.

But u can change the white spot on teeth cant u

not sure if troll...

i probably could change it, but i choose not to, cos it doesnt stop me from eating or affects me in any negative way.. yeah it might make me self conscious if a person decided to point it out, but its not doing me any harm. so why should i change?