When I started university recently, I met this guy. We'd spoken loads on MSN before I arrived and had got to know each other really well - even before we'd met in person, I knew I had feelings for him. The first time we met face to face was amazing - we got on so well and I honestly felt like I'd known him forever. He seemed to feel the same way and we were constantly ringing each other and texting each other. Then the second time we met up, he ended up staying over, and things got a bit heavy....he fingered me and I tossed him off, but that's as far as it went. We're both virgins, but doing sexual stuff with him just felt right. Anyway, since that night, he has gone SERIOUSLY weird with me! He stopped texting regularly, and when we spoke over MSN he was very off and distant. He said he "didn't expect things to move so fast" but at the same time said he wanted us to be more than friends! He said, "I just want to get to know you better first." Fair enough, and since then (a week ago) we've spent one whole day together which was really nice. Again though,we cuddled and held hands yet he seemed reluctant to even kiss me. I have no idea where I stand and I'm so confused. I have really fallen for this guy, but whenever I bring up the "awkwardness" that I can sense between us, he just brushes it aside and says he's been really busy with uni work or whatever. I hate feeling like this, and I feel like I've been a complete slag and made him lose all respect for me by going further with him on our second date. Please, any advice appreciated. Thanks so much for reading!
Ah he's THAT kinda guy... I hate to hit you over the head with a reality check (plus this will be a somewhat biased view seen as I have a low opinion of guys atm...long story..) but seems to me he just wanted to 'pull' someone, maybe boost his popularity with his mates, make himself feel attractive, I'm not saying that its not possible that he likes you etc. etc. but...some guys are like that
Sorry if I offended you...
....Sorry If I offended anyone tbh, but theres my two cents