Girlfriend walks around topless at home: is it strange? Watch

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Ok as the title says. I share a flat with my gf at uni and she sometimes walks around the flat topless (like I do) when it's warm etc or well "just for relaxing".

Don't get me wrong I love it, she's very attractive and athletic. But I can't help but find it a little weird/strange?

Girls, do any of you do this in front of your boyfriends? Guys how would you find this?

Next time she does it should I tell her to cover up?

Note: she would never do this in front of other friends or family etc just for the record.
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No it's not strange, she's obviously really confident and as you said she's walking around topless in the same situations you do. It's her body so no you can't tell her to 'cover up'.
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No i wouldnt find it strange.
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I've been known to walk around my house share in underwear, girls like to be comfortable too.


Edit: Also why the hell would you want to tell her to cover up? For starters you're not in charge of her, and why wouldn't you want to see her topless if she is your girlfriend anyway?
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She is your girlfriend and it's only a flat (and I'm guessing there is no CCTV inside). You should actually compliment her each time you see her topless, since you know she won't go topless anywhere else
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By all means enjoy the view... BUT It's the middle of winter - if you're paying the gas bill on this flat get ready for an absolute shocker.
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Nope it's not weird in your own home where other people can't see. I walk around naked or topless a lot in front of my boyfriend and he loves it haha
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I mean I love of course! Sometimes she walks around in only her panties if not just jeans. I just scream woohooo
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(Original post by SophieSmall)
I've been known to walk around my house share in underwear, girls like to be comfortable too.


Edit: Also why the hell would you want to tell her to cover up? For starters you're not in charge of her, and why wouldn't you want to see her topless if she is your girlfriend anyway?
I don't get why lots of people are making that point.

If a guy was always walking around topless in the house, I'd think it fair enough if his girlfriend found it annoying after a while and told him to do it less often. I wouldn't say, "OMG HIS BODY HIS CHOICE!!!!11". People are allowed to make suggestions to their partners in a relationship.
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It is way out of order.

Tell her that she is distracting you from all that porn and adult mags that you hide under your bed.
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Nah it's not strange. Though I only really do it to save on unnecessary laundry :indiff: she's confident in her body, that's good.
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why would It be weird? :/ its not like she's going down tescos doing that- plus, it shows she's comfortable with you which Is great.
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I guarantee you she won't take well to you telling her to put some clothes on, purely because you walk around topless too.

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My body is in too bad shape to let a guy see me topless. So I always cover up. But if I had a toned body I wouldn't do so.
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(Original post by Chief Wiggum)
I don't get why lots of people are making that point.

If a guy was always walking around topless in the house, I'd think it fair enough if his girlfriend found it annoying after a while and told him to do it less often. I wouldn't say, "OMG HIS BODY HIS CHOICE!!!!11". People are allowed to make suggestions to their partners in a relationship.
Really? As a guy who walks around naked a lot, I'd find it odd if my girlfriend reacted like that, if you don't like seeing someone topless or naked, why are you with them?
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Nudism is more common in the home than one would think.

Some people even pay good money to have cleaners do the housework topless.

Don't complain - enjoy the freedom and intimacy.
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walk around naked majority of the time. it's normal
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>.> w..w..w..whyy is this an issue??
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Strange? No

Awesome? Yes
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(Original post by taylorg292)
No it's not strange, she's obviously really confident and as you said she's walking around topless in the same situations you do. It's her body so no you can't tell her to 'cover up'.
He could if he wanted to, although I don't think that's what he is suggesting.

He doesn't have the right to demand that she walks around topless, as it is her body, but he would, if it made him uncomfortable have the right to demand she wears clothes.
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