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Asking a girl

basically i don't no how to approach this grl who i've liked since i was like 13. 3.5 years really. basically i've jsut realised this isn't normal and anyways shes broke up with her bf but i don't think i shud do something cos i know that ppl are fragile around those times. i don't like her cos shes fit cos shes fit anyway but i like her personality etc and i no she probably like me 2 as she always talks to me etc etc etc. but i don't no how to approach her ... i just get nervous and don't no what to say. girls in particular wat shud i do and guys too.

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Reply 1

andy_cole2

msn, texting lol build from there i think is the best way once u build in confidence online u can build it offline. just don't talk too much online cos then ul become msn buddies and then it will become too late :p:

but erm yeah i think if ur nervous about it build the situation up in your head or through msn/texting before asking face to face. and don't be nervous if she lieks u she likes u u have nothign to be nervous for. and just don't leave it too long cos then ul regret it even mroe.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

er we've had bout 6 convos on msn but we're just a bit matey. plus i've known her since lower school so is that a problem

Reply 3

kam

If I were you, I'd be supporting around about this time.
You can make a move, but she might just see it as a bit shady, seeing as she's just broke up with her bf.

Reply 4

Evil-Tuna

Why would it be a problem if you've known her since ''lower school''?

Reply 5

andy_cole2

nope you could ahve known her all your life or you could have just met her, knowing for longer is good as you mite share memories/ things u can both laugh at, lol 6 convos on msn is tiny :p:

but yeah support her and if she opens up to you never laugh or say anything wrong be sympathetic, and don't voice strong opinions if she's upset about something cos then ur gambling that she agrees with you just go with w/e she says :p:

and ul be fine lol its just a girl, the more u try and scientifically pull it all appart with oyour '6 convos' etc the harder it will be coem keep it natural

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

yeah but shes been with me best m8 in lower school...but i really do like her. wat can i talk to her bout oh **** i'm in a mess

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

plus we're 2 matey

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

plz help

Reply 9

Evil-Tuna

Why are you posting as anonymous user 2? Or is someone faking it? Tsk tsk.

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

no i have 2 accounts my bad ok but plz help

Reply 11

K o k o

Start with dropping some hints...give her a compliment or two.

Ask her out to a movie maybe...

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

ok...so i just start by building bridges ok...then what soz if i seem totally confused .

Reply 13

conservativebohemian

Be cool. She's only a human ( one who bleeds every month).

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

yeah lol i sppose so

Reply 15

notontsranymore

just build up ur relationship and flatter her provided its under control and genuine

Reply 16

Toy Soldier

Get her drunk.

Reply 17

mr_person

Just ask her what she did at the weekend... You do know that girls are human too right? Once you start talking just keep eye contact and smile lots and listen to what she's saying. It doesn't matter if she is talking crap, if you appear to listen to her she will like you. :smile:

Reply 18

notontsranymore

yeah thats the tried and tested method. dunno think the drunk idea will work though from what i read i think he likes her more than just for getting it on.