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A young lady I like.....advice please!

Hey Hey,

Basically........this girl and me have been friends for about 2 months, and we have been getting on amazingly well, and after much convo we decided we would like to take the 'freinds with benefits' route, as we both want fun and trust each other.
However, we are starting to fall for each other more......and it's getting a bit heavier then its original intention.

So, Monday (the 23rd) she is coming over my house.....obviously for the 'benefits' (the first time) but I want to make her feel really special aswell!

Any idea please?

I was thinking bottle of wine, and a film while cudlding up on the sofa maybe?

Thanks

Kevin

Reply 1

The_Bear

13

Don't forget the condoms

Reply 2

Juwel

18

Durex Play!

Lots of going down on her :wink:

And err just tell her, how special she is to you, and how special you want to be for her.

Best of luck in love my brother.

Reply 3

mattyboi2k8

OP

1

I have some durex play massage oil.......I had with my ex.....but it's still good.

Reply 4

gbduo

15

wait a sec...how young!?

Reply 5

mattyboi2k8

OP

1

she is 17 and I'm 17....well I will be 18 by then.
Sorry...I just use the term young lady, because I like it.

Reply 6

Juwel

18

Good boy. Loob it up!

Reply 7

mattyboi2k8

OP

1

I was wanting more adivce to like make her feel wanted etc.......rather then sex advice.

Reply 8

gbduo

15

kacas

she is 17 and I'm 17....well I will be 18 by then.
Sorry...I just use the term young lady, because I like it.

Lol, i was joking mate :biggrin:

You just gotta make her feel like she is the only one, the best person in the world, an absolute Goddess/Princess.

Girls are quite egotistical (no matter how much they deny it) if you tell them that they are special to you, the only one, they are beautiful, etc etc you will either score or make her sick...its a risk we as stupid men have to take.

Graham

Reply 9

hyper-little-mushroom-men

1

I think cooking for her wouldn't hurt... provided you can cook, lol! :p:

But seriously, wine and a film sounds good.

Reply 10

Milli

11

Cooking for her would be a good start :smile:

Reply 11

biscuitking

You're 17 and you'll be home alone? or is this massaging etc. going to happen whilst others are around? :eek:

I mean home alone in that you have your own place, not being left alone, obviously that isn't a problem lol :redface:

Reply 12

mattyboi2k8

OP

1

Oh we will be home alone, my dad will be at work.

Reply 13

username47781

20

Why don't you just ask her out it seems you are crazy about her and she likes you as well.

Reply 14

pbrown

Ron Stoppable

You've met a girl you really like, and want to spark some major chemistry, start kissing her, etc. Consider that you're going to get some major resistance if you assume that, whatever she could have been doing with her friends, she's gonna drop and come back to your place so you can SHAG her.

That's just a hunch.

Love,
Me

Yeah, don't assume anything like that. Use the male imagination wisely, my friend.

Reply 15

mattyboi2k8

OP

1

Does it help if she has said.....she wants to do stuff? lol

Reply 16

username39618

1

Pop a cap in her ass?

Reply 17

scribble_girl

14

It sounds very very cheesy.
But look into her eyes lots :smile:

It does sound cheesy - but the friends with benefits thing runs the risk of her feeling cheap
make sure she feels like you're connecting with her in more than just the obvious way :P
best of luck to you :smile:

Reply 18

mattyboi2k8

OP

1

Whats the eye thing do?
Any...psychology behind that?