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Strange guy at school......

Hi there,

I am 15, in year 11 at school and I don't consider myself to be extremely popular or to have 'loadsa' friends but there is one guy, in my form, and 2 of my classes, that seems to have a problem and has done for a long time. :confused:

Basicly, he is my best friends, I think, best friend. So he is best friends with my best friend.
He always seems to have a problem with me as in he will NEVER talk to me directly or even at all, the only time I can remember he talked to me ever was in a GCSE IT lesson that we are in together and even then he gives me funny looks as if I am going to shout something or do something to him!?

Whilst my best friend is friends with him, at break and lunchtimes they play basketball, whilst I play with my other friends, playing football.

I cannot figure what his exact problem is, and I do NOT in any way actually want to be friends with him, we have nothing in common and I don't particularly like him.

Today in IT, we were in the class and everyone had done a presentation on a specific aspect of the syllabus and the teacher asked for any volunteers and I, and my other friend, shouted out the guys name.
He then had to actually do his presentation and was giving me horrible glances and looks whilst he did it!
But today, I was with my best friend walking home, and he said that the guy was really annoyed with me and he had always hated me.

Quite frankly I do NOT want to be friends with him and I don't give a s*** about him I just hate the way he is always around making sniddy remarks all the time and he can never take a joke.

I think it may also be jealousy, because one lunchtime, I was in my form room with him and several other mates when my closest female friend came along and asked to talk to me. I did so, but then my female friend told me that after school, this guy had gone up to her and asked her 'what is the deal between you and *****'.????!!!

I really don't get his problem he is a real w*****.
I can't talk to him and it is just annoying find it frustrating, if I was stronger I would fight him but he is stronger than me and I know violence solves nothing. If he has a problem then I wish he would f**** well come to me and say what it is because I would talk to him if he came to me but if I did that to him I would be ignored!

Any ideas on what his problem is!???

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Reply 1

kam

Ask your friend to ask him why he hates you.
Demand an answer...

Reply 2

username39618

Best advice to be given, pop a cap in his ass...it works on so many levels.

Reply 3

Convalescent

He's seems jealous of you, like everyone is jealous of me. I advise you to put him down at every opportunity (not physically).

Reply 4

Grey

kill dat fool

Reply 5

The_Bear

Turn your best friend against him

Reply 6

jellyellie

If you don't want to be friends with him and find him annoying, why don't you take a mature approach and stop it turning into such a big deal? You'll come across *******s in your future; best to get some practice now about how to deal with them. Be polite when you encounter him, but don't sink down to his level and get annoyed with his pettyness. Allow your friend to be friends with him. Just don't get involved.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Cheers for the varied replies lol!

I reckon it is jealousy to some extent, but as I say, I am not going to do anything about it but I don't care about him and my best friend being best friends with him also but if he goes after my female friends then he will encounter difficulties walking or f***ing in the future.

I can't 'not get involved' when he is always making sniddy comments, I would seriously take him on but this guy is 6ft, I am 5'8 and I am no way near as strong as him and wouldn't want to fight him as that would be at his level.

Its difficult in next few weeks because as he is in my form :rolleyes:

we have a rota of who does this prayer thing in the form every week and I have been put in his group to do this and my friend is saying he expects me to do all the work! f*** that! If he doesn't discuss it with me, the prayer thing we have to do, then he can f*** himself he is a real b******!

Reply 8

WokSz

Be the man and go speak to him. Ask him what his problem is and tell him that he needs to get a life.

Reply 9

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Makky_Legend

Best advice to be given, pop a cap in his ass...it works on so many levels.

Reply 10

mr_person

I can relate to this. Unfortunately you may just have to accept that you may not be able to change the way things are. Its possibly he holds a grudge against you for something you did a while ago. If you can think of anything like that it might help.

Reply 11

maag101

I'm not entirely sure what 'sniddy' is. :s-smilie:

Reply 12

froggi

spread a rumour that hes got HIV or syphilis.

Reply 13

Sithius

Why do you care?

Reply 14

JimmyJJ

Smack him or stay well clear.

Take it from my mate, when i was your age i had the same problem with some kid. He was jealous of me.

A year later the scroate got him and his chav mates to jump me when i was alone. One lad ended up with two broken teeth but i still ended up cut up pretty bad.

Take him down, don't be nice to the lad. He sounds like he's plotting something.

Reply 15

Toy Soldier

Clearly he fancies you and / or your friend.

Reply 16

Anonymous #2

stop being so horrible to him and he will do likewise. its not hard is it? Quit picking on him

Reply 17

matt@internet

WokSz

Be the man and go speak to him. Ask him what his problem is and tell him that he needs to get a life.

Exactly, don't get your friend to confront him about it, confront him yourself.

Reply 18

Milli

Hmm it's pretty obvious he fancies your female best friend. Maybe he see's you as competition which explains why he hates you....no?

Reply 19

Louenn

maag101

I'm not entirely sure what 'sniddy' is. :s-smilie:

I presumed "snidey".

The best thing to do in this situation is either leave well alone, or say to him that you think the two of you are never going to be friendly, but can you agree to disagree and be civil, and that as you're expected to work together on the prayer thing, can he be fair and both of you make it work so that you can show to the rest of the class that you don't have to be particularly fond of someone to work well with them.

Apologise for calling out his name in the computer class too, tell him it was only meant as a joke and not to cause offense, and that you won't do it again.

And make sure you point out that you have no problem with the two of you having mutual friends, provided that you both agree that should there be any further disagreement between the two of you, you leave said mutual friends out of it, out of respect for the friends (if not necessarily for each other).

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