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miss my ex

me and my bf broke up bk in sept before he went to uni and now i really miss him still.
how long does it take for the pain togo away?
and what can i do to stop it!
thank you guys x

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Reply 1

username47781

Varies, was uni the sole reason why you broke up?, who ended it? Does he know how you feel?

If there is no hope of getting back together try and keep yourself busy.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

he said i was really clingy and we grew apart over the summer so it was a joint thing
but its still really hard

Reply 3

username47781

Hmmm maybe he was using it as an excuse, depends whether you bombarded him with texts or not.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

A little bit but only when he was being annoying and not talking to me its difficult. we both changed

Reply 5

username47781

Maybe you was both just wasn't ready for a relationship or maybe he hasn't ready, but still think he was using clingy as an excuse.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

he seems to have an excuse for everything else sorry i didnt answer your message i was on the phone, in the kitchen etc

Reply 7

username47781

No worries, to be honest he sounds a bit of an idiot to me, i think in the long run you are going to be alot better off without him, he is an ex for a reason and it's his loss.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

yeah thanx hun i no im better off with out him i just miss what we had but how hes acting im glad we split

Reply 9

username47781

Yeah unfortunatly some guys are like that soon as university comes up, oh time to throw in the towel, i am guessing he didn't even bother trying to work it out.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

we knew he was moving to another uni but we never planned on breaking up guess being with his **** friends really did change him over the summer o well plenty more out there im a fresher so lets have some fun

Reply 11

username47781

Yeah thats a major problem too, friends like that. They tend to influence and put peer pressure on him and not only that if they are single and having fun the chances are he will think he is missing out. But yes thats the attitude to have, plenty more guys out there.