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Is this situation strange?

Does anyone else get a bit turned on if say you hurt your shoulder and the opposite sex jokes and says 'do you want a massage'? Also it happens if the opposite sex jokes and says something like 'he wants some sympathy'. I don't get it.. it happenes even with females that are not my age group (not too old) I can't stop thinking about it after it happens. Is it in a way flirting would you say? Or should I not be liking stuff like this?

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Reply 1

Btw the people who say it do not fancy me its just like common talk.

Reply 2

Never heard of that before :/

Reply 3

Your hormones are at work, and what you need now is sex. Period.

May I also take this opportunity to reassure you that you are normal.

Reply 4

Get some sex

Reply 5

cool i just picked up a sex tip :cool:

Reply 6

or some porn...

Reply 7

There's nothing wrong with you. It is slightly unusual to get a hard-on when someone offers you a massage for health reasons, but its not a big deal. Probably best to try to disguise it though. :smile:

Reply 8

mr_person
There's nothing wrong with you. It is slightly unusual to get a hard-on when someone offers you a massage for health reasons, but its not a big deal. Probably best to try to disguise it though. :smile:


This still here, so it only happens to me? I didn't get a hard on just felt ..sexual and turned on inside.

Reply 9

heh, sounds like a bit of sexual frustration there...

Reply 10

How old are you?

Reply 11

OP you're kinda sounding like a mentalist here... If you're saying that you get turned on at the prospect of being touched by a woman, then thats perfectly normal. It just means you need to get some, fast. But the fact you are describing it the way you are, tends to give the impression that you're not normal. :smile:

Reply 12

mr_person
How old are you?


20, its always happened and I thought everyone felt the same but clearly not..maybe im over sensitive or something?

Reply 13

3232
OP you're kinda sounding like a mentalist here... If you're saying that you get turned on at the prospect of being touched by a woman, then thats perfectly normal. It just means you need to get some, fast. But the fact you are describing it the way you are, tends to give the impression that you're not normal. :smile:


Thanks, you haven't explained what you mean, its always happened so maybe Ive always been a mentalist.

Reply 14

Anonymous
Thanks, you haven't explained what you mean, its always happened so maybe Ive always been a mentalist.



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You are normal. It is normal. It happens. Please accept this.

Reply 15

Do you masturbate regularly/look at porn?

Reply 16

3232
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You are normal. It is normal. It happens. Please accept this.


What got me worrying is the fact that others are not like this ie the people who said it or else they would not have said it expecially with different ages being present. I know I sound like I was born yesterday but still..

Reply 17

mr_person
Do you masturbate regularly/look at porn?


Sometimes, of course

Reply 18

Anonymous
What got me worrying is the fact that others are not like this ie the people who said it or else they would not have said it expecially with different ages being present. I know I sound like I was born yesterday but still..



For christs sake, its just cause you're horny that you feel this way and they don't they're probably at the point where they've had enough sex to realise someone jokingly offering a massage isn't going to lead to sex so theres nothing to get excited about.

This may be a tad personal, but have you ever had sex?

Reply 19

everyone is different. Some people can relate to this, others think it is odd.

But no, you are not abnormal.

Tbh, the thought of getting touched in a caring manner by the opposite sex is really rather alluring. And yes, I do need some sex (before someone comments).