Looking 4 GF At Uni!

Hi,

Basically, i am a 7/10 i feel, with the ladies, but don't have the confidence to go and talk 2 them.

I walk around uni, with my mates, they give sorta give me that' i like you' look or 'come and get me', but don't have the courage.

Btw, do girls go after guyz, i mean i am not talking about girls in lectures, just when you walk around the campus.......and you see some1 you like.

Any tips, hints when approaching girls like dat, or confidence tips, etc..............

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

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Reply 2

Juwel

18

Yeah David De Angelo FTW! :laugh:

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

I am not paying 4 nothing............any tips, then or are you all losers, like me, lol

Reply 4

andy_cole2

14

instead of looking for 'ladies' or 'girls' why don't u look for 'friends' thats the great thing about members of hte opposite sex u can have them as mates too. i think thats the best way to go, once you get confident just chatting with them then you can build on that. Girls aren't just some random commodity that you trade in or rate yourself against, their people that you can have conversations with and get to know before trying to get in their pants

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Well, obv, mate. ino that, i am just saying, say i see someone i like, i go up 2 them i think your are pretty, wanna do something sometime,get their numba, and if youth both feel a connection then give it a shot, if not well you made another friend.

Reply 6

maag101

1

Initate a conversation. Then tell them that you don't want to lose contact and give them your number. At the very least you've just given the girl an ego boost. And you've left it open so that it could mean that you could become friends or more.

Reply 7

Anonymous #3

Btw just because you get together with someone doesn't mean you'll actually go out with them.

Reply 8

MissHero

1

7/10?! My god! *swoons*

Reply 9

Profesh

20

Anonymous

Hi,

Basically, i am a 7/10 i feel, with the ladies, but don't have the confidence to go and talk 2 them.

If only you were an '8/10', then the "ladies" might even be so pro-active as to initiate conversation.

Reply 10

Juwel

18

If it helps, use someone else's icebreaker. That way you don't have to agonise and rack your brains about what to say. People like to be opened; say anything and they're likely to talk. Frankly it's all very welcome, as the mundane nature of the average conversation means people might be quite relieved to talk about and be receptive to other things.

Reply 11

puppy

Anonymous

Hi,

Basically, i am a 7/10 i feel, with the ladies, but don't have the confidence to go and talk 2 them.

I walk around uni, with my mates, they give sorta give me that' i like you' look or 'come and get me', but don't have the courage.

Btw, do girls go after guyz, i mean i am not talking about girls in lectures, just when you walk around the campus.......and you see some1 you like.

Any tips, hints when approaching girls like dat, or confidence tips, etc..............

What on earth kind of girls go around giving you 'I like you' and 'come and get me' looks? They're probably just staring into space whilst theyre drifting round uni and thinking about how much work they have to do when they get home and you happen to be in their eye-line. If someone tried to hit on me when I was in a library or in my faculty trying to work or on my way somewhere I'd be seriously unimpressed and think they were a total psycho.

Reply 12

Juwel

18

puppy

If someone tried to hit on me when I was in a library or in my faculty trying to work or on my way somewhere I'd be seriously unimpressed and think they were a total psycho.

Doesn't happen to you much then does it :p:

Reply 13

The_Bear

13

7/10 attractive?

Because if you can't talk to girls then that drops to 0, which incidentally is the amount of sex you'll be getting for the rest of your life.

My advice, get your confidence from alcohol.

Reply 14

puppy

Juwel

Doesn't happen to you much then does it :p:

No, never.

Reply 15

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3

The_Bear

My advice, get your confidence from alcohol.

Indeed, walk around university at 10am pissed with a cheap can of high volume beer, the ladies will come flocking! You'll also probably think you're a 10/10 then.

Reply 16

Sithius

16

puppy

What on earth kind of girls go around giving you 'I like you' and 'come and get me' looks? They're probably just staring into space whilst theyre drifting round uni and thinking about how much work they have to do when they get home and you happen to be in their eye-line. If someone tried to hit on me when I was in a library or in my faculty trying to work or on my way somewhere I'd be seriously unimpressed and think they were a total psycho.

aye because the concentration required to 'walk' is so difficult around campus that the sheer thought of looking at someone else to 'check them out' is considered psycho.

Reply 17

puppy

Sithius

aye because the concentration required to 'walk' is so difficult around campus that the sheer thought of looking at someone else to 'check them out' is considered psycho.

Well I'm either talking with friends or desperately rushing somewhere else whilst mentally screening my to-do list for things I might have forgotten. Frankly I save 'checking people out' for bars, clubs, formals, and any other social occasion where there's alcohol and no essays.

EDIT: Having checked your public profile it turns out you don't even go to uni so why you feel qualified to comment on this topic is beyond me.

Reply 18

Reue

20

Gotta love guys who are convinced they get 'i like you' or 'come and get me' looks.

Reply 19

Creepy

14

Don't be a pussy and go and talk to them. Initiate conversation by saying "Hello, I'm <enter name here>. Thought i'd come over and introduce myself..." Never failed for me. I've gotten two long term relationships out of it too (at seperate times, of course).

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