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Patronising and annoying

My friend had a messy break up with her guy, he never wants to see her again. She is now trying to get the sympathy vote but harassing him saying her life is not worth living for and not telling her friends the situation.

She is getting annoying now cos she takes it out on those in relationships by having a go at them saying things like why are you dwelling on people we used to hang out with - I find that not dwelling and nice to cherish the memories.

I just get angry when people think they can have a go and get jealous over those in relationships, most people think she deserved to be dumped as she is a bunny boiler who hasn't got a clue. I am best to avoid her as she won't tell us what is going on and is judgemental to what we do with our lives even though she thinks wagging uni is a good idea.

Reply 1

That sounds like the messy break up i had with my ex, she was a bunny boiler and possessive over me, i would suggest you are best to avoid her and not talk to her.

Reply 2

These friends are unhealthy, avoid her as she'll bring you down too. Sounds very jealous she must have done something wrong in her relationship no wonder her ex dumped her, unattractive qualities displayed.

Reply 3

Just tell her that she needs to move on and leave her to it.