every1 hates me cuz i am with an older man

hi, i been cing this guy for about 6 months now but it has caused me 2 lose all my friends in the 6th form. I am 17 my b/f is 50, he is very gud looking 4 his age and was there 4 me wen my last b/f cheated on me.

we met in a cafe after he saw me lookin sad and came over 2 talk 2 me, he was so gentle and kind, i did not no his age as he looked bout 35, i was shocked wen he told me he was 50 but i didn't mind as he certainly doesn't show his age wen it cums 2 the bedroom.

Now all my friends r calling me horrible names & telling me 2 finish it but i can't cuz he has been gud 2 me.

Worst still wen my parents found out they went thru the roof so i walked out and stayed wit my aunt 4 a bit, be4 my b/f let me move in with him, he owns his own business so money is not an issue.

How can i make my friends accept it, surely the age isn't a problem wen u love sum1 so much, my teachers 2 have been off wit me and told me my work is suffering but i don't think it is.

I am happy with my b/f yet i am sad cuz nearly all my friends won't talk to me & think i am a sl*t which is not true, i have not heard from my parents in 2 months., can any1 advise me?

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Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Well you have got to look at the facts... your 17 in a cafe and a 50 year old man ends up going out with you. You have got to take a serious look at his motives, and if I were you I would be worried..... sounds rather pervy to me.

Well woteva happens I hope ur mates change their minds and stand by you!

Reply 2

JimmyJJ

He's 50.

Don't kid yourself.

Reply 3

Dragon24

He's old enough to be you father - why is he not with anyone his own age? Maybe your friends don't want you to fail or feel threatened by him?

Reply 4

Shockley

What is it with these threads? 17 year olds going out with pensioners seems to be a fashion these days.
I have one thing to say to you, I think you're a foolish idiot for hooking up with a pervert. I don't care how much you say "he luvs meeeeee" the fact is you're being taken advantage of. Why don't girls like you just wise up and get boyfriends your own age? Girls like you make me ashamed. Maybe you should read the papers more. Oh, and crimewatch.

Reply 5

pink_lucie

what are we suposed to do about it exactly....?
your not gonna dump him are you? so then you just have to put up with not having friends

Reply 6

Kjata

Um... i don't really know what to say to that love... 33 years is a huge age gap he could be like old enough to be ur dad.
Although if you love him enuf just tell the truth.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

he was like me, he was lonely after his wife left him 4 another bloke and took da kids wit her.

Reply 8

Reue

33 years difference.... im all for couples with age gaps but that is far too much.

Reply 9

kam

Choose who you want to be with, the 50yr old or your friends & family.

Reply 10

Segat1

The wife was smart.

Reply 11

Flank Runner

sort your life out before its too late, either sit down with everyone and talk or make a choice, family and friends or your bf

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

all da boys my age r so immature & they cheat, he is not like dat.

Reply 13

Anonymous #3

look ive posted in one of ur other threads and im just going to tell u ull regret. You will regret so bad one day. You just watch hun. these elder men u dont know them. U just dont. I cant tell u dont coz i remember when i was in ur situation i didnt listen to no-one i bloody nearly killed myself because i was so bloody heart broken. but what the heck if u want to suffer go ahead if u dont then get out of there. Hes bloody using u please stop this crap now.please ive been there if ud like ill give u my add update us. damn u please for god sake im so glad i dint give him my body dont u dare! damn i feel so bad for u ...i really do because u remind me of me once.

Reply 14

Nathan3535

Type correctly please, no slang shiz!

Do what you feel, but 33years is huge, he must be a pimp!

Reply 15

Segat1

Anonymous

all da boys my age r so immature & they cheat, he is not like dat.

That's because they are 17, not middle aged weirdos who go out with teenagers. And cut the text speak if you want to be taken seriously.

Reply 16

Reue

He's 50! whos he gonna cheat WITH? Seriously, most people his age are married with kids. He;s gonna be dead in 20 - odd years prob.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

he's not using me he told me he love me lots

Reply 18

Reue

If he loved you he wouldnt be tearing apart your family

Reply 19

Guffy

Anonymous

all da boys my age r so immature & they cheat, he is not like dat.

He's 50 years old and he's not immature? Gee, big surprise there then.

He'll be dead of old age before you even reach the menopause. Think about that.