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    Basically I have a friend in uni who is kind of anti-social and shy so its difficult to get signs from her. I would like to know how she feels about me, if anything, but what are the signs I should look for?

    Some signs I've seen:

    She told me off for commenting that a girl was clearly showing off her boobs in her christmas outfit, saying I shouldnt stare at girls boobs in a bashful way, when I literally just glanced at this girl.

    She always stares into my eyes almost in a trance like way, always paying attention to whatever I'm saying

    She's very open about talking about sex sometimes, and often asks me if I have done 'such and such' to a girl etc

    All of these could mean nothing but I'm not sure, need peoples advice

    On the other hand she isn't particularly touchy, as in she doesn't really make much physical contact. However, that is true with anyone she is with because she is a shy person.
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    Don't stare at a girls boobs lmfao they were made for looking at. And babies

    I think she's interested, don't be too bothered about the physical contact but try to hug her once in a while.

    Or you can just ask her out casually.

    Theres Hope.
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    Don't stare at a girls boobs lmfao they were made for looking at. And babies

    I think she's interested, don't be too bothered about the physical contact but try to hug her once in a while.

    Or you can just ask her out casually.

    Theres Hope.
    I havn't been able to even think about asking her out because we are in a smallish group of friends that hang around together in uni. This is our last year so I guess it might be worth a shot.

    But... basically there is a reason that has been hindering me about asking her out, but I don't want to post it on here (don't worry, its nothing bad just a personal worry )
 
 
 
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