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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Sorry but can you type that so I can understand it.
    you dont want to know what he said anyway
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    Nope he's not popular, according to my friends he's alone most the time.
    Ok then he is just simply shy..
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    theres just some guys that are shy.. and i bet hes one of em...
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    OKkk I've noticed that it's always ME intitating the conversation with him... he doesn't seem to get the hint that I like him lol

    Tommmorrow,if I see him; I'll probably say hi again.. however he doesn't seem approachable. Whenever I see him, he is often in a small group of friends and I wouldn't want to jump in and say HIIIII... lol
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    Let us know how itgoes then
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    Me... go into his small group of friends and say 'hi' just to him? I feel that it's too random...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Sorry but can you type that so I can understand it.
    Is that a plea, or a challenge?
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    Is that a plea, or a challenge?
    Never mind.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    OKkk I've noticed that it's always ME intitating the conversation with him... he doesn't seem to get the hint that I like him lol

    Tommmorrow,if I see him; I'll probably say hi again.. however he doesn't seem approachable. Whenever I see him, he is often in a small group of friends and I wouldn't want to jump in and say HIIIII... lol
    Bit of a personal question I guess, but if it's hard to talk to him and he doesn't really say much, what attracts you to him? He must be incredibly good looking?

    I find it very hard to initiate a conversation with someone who doesn't give a lot back, the awkward silences make me feel very uncomfortable, and I'm usually attracted to males who I can a conversation with easily. If they're goodlooking that's just a bonus. :p:
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    There's someone i like. But shes always in a certain circle of friends that its difficult to get around. But i only know her from one of my lessons, and so do you think it would be out of order to try and say something? Or even ask her out somewhere? Or should i continue just small conversations for now?
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    Bit of a personal question I guess, but if it's hard to talk to him and he doesn't really say much, what attracts you to him? He must be incredibly good looking?

    I find it very hard to initiate a conversation with someone who doesn't give a lot back, the awkward silences make me feel very uncomfortable, and I'm usually attracted to males who I can a conversation with easily. If they're goodlooking that's just a bonus. :p:
    When I started talking to him in the corridor, I thought he was very nice and was easy to get along with. And yup, I think he's good looking which is why I'm also attracted to him.:p:

    And today, he acted kinda cold like he didn't want to talk to me... I dunno. It might be just my mind playing about.
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    There's someone i like. But shes always in a certain circle of friends that its difficult to get around. But i only know her from one of my lessons, and so do you think it would be out of order to try and say something? Or even ask her out somewhere? Or should i continue just small conversations for now?
    Try and talk to her. I'm sure she'll be flattered; say hi and ask what she's doing on the weekends or half term.:p:
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    Find out what he's into* and ask him stuff about that. That should get him talking.


    *Obviously if he's hardcore into rape porn or something maybe just start with a comment about the weather.
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    Yeah he's just shy around girls i think.
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    (Original post by mr_person)
    Find out what he's into* and ask him stuff about that. That should get him talking.


    *Obviously if he's hardcore into rape porn or something maybe just start with a comment about the weather.
    I know I'm not being very helpful, but just had to take my hat off to that!
    And OT, I think you should keep trying. I do think he probably is just really shy, and it's taking him a while to figure out why you keep talking to him!
    Try to ask leading questions in order to force a response. Like instead of "Hi, how are you?" Ask if he could explain something related to one of your classes, or ask if he has seen one of your friends or something?! I don't know..
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    Maybe you should see things from his point of view; I'm just trying to goto school, get decent grades and goto uni, mind my own business keep my head down and this person keeps on bugging me, I might turn to mass murder if she doesn't leave me alone, doesn't she get that I'm GAY for gods sake!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Maybe you should see things from his point of view; I'm just trying to goto school, get decent grades and goto uni, mind my own business keep my head down and this person keeps on bugging me, I might turn to mass murder if she doesn't leave me alone, doesn't she get that I'm GAY for gods sake!
    That aside the point is, it takes two to tango, and if he's not interested you should move on...
 
 
 
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