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    Hi there. I'm in a bit of a pickle at the moment. Basically I have a best mate and in the summer this girl took an interest in him. She came to me for advice and we started talking and became friends. Over the summer we were especially close as my best mate was away for sometime so she hanged out with me. I unintentionally became the middleman in the relationship. My best mate returned and they hooked up, all was good, as I didn't have feelings towards her but it was great as I didn't have to pretend around her and I could just be myself. So all was good between my best mate and now my girl bestfriend untill from about a month ago when they started to argue and the relationship broke down again she came to me for advice and I gave it. Anyhow they broke up and here we are. She's pretty much over my best mate but he wants her back desperately. Recently I've began to develop feelings for this girl. I don't want to as I know how complicated it will be especially as my other mate made a move after they broke up and got Friendzoned. I can't stop though, we talk every day and sometimes I think she may like me. There's physical contact but then there always has been when she was with her ex. She said to me today that I'm the person she speaks to most on fb and that I've replaced her ex. She often says stuff when I need to do something like "Aw stay" etc. We talk about everything and I thought her breaking up with my best mate would push her away but if anything we're closer. I really don't know what to do, play it out I guess and see if it's just a phase. Thanks for any advice.
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    She is your best mates ex, plus it's not as if he is over her. You've said yourself that he wants her back, so stay away from her.

    Don't be that guy.
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    (Original post by Vikki1805)
    She is your best mates ex, plus it's not as if he is over her. You've said yourself that he wants her back, so stay away from her.

    Don't be that guy.
    I hear you. I don't want to lose my best mate.
 
 
 
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