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NYE and Boyfriends friends Watch

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    Hi Guys,

    I'm very nervous and need some help. On NYE my boyfriend has invited me to a house party with around 20 close friends that he went to university with, the majority of whom he is very close to. They all have known each other for 10 years (they're 28-29) and I am really really scared.

    How do I tell him that I am petrified? How do I act? They'll have loads of "in jokes" and stuff and I won't know anyone/anything.

    I am so nervous!
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    What are you scared off? Just go and talk to them normally, you are not expected to know the in jokes.

    Just go, drink, relax and have fun.
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    I second what ^ said, but I'd advise not to drink too much
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    (Original post by az08)
    What are you scared off? Just go and talk to them normally, you are not expected to know the in jokes.

    Just go, drink, relax and have fun.

    (Original post by Kmb123)
    I second what ^ said, but I'd advise not to drink too much
    Thanks for your advice. I'm worried that they won't like me and I'll spend the evening alone whilst they "reminicise" about the old days .
 
 
 
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