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How to deal with the pain of Pakistani boyfriend marrying another girl? watch

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    Hahaahaha this culture needs updating?!

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    Watch Citizen Khan and you will understand why the parents don't want anything other than Pakistani.
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    Lol
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    I feel bad for you..... its happened to me we fell in love.... he went for his 6 week 'holiday' then bam i found out through fb he gt married..... its torn me apart..... if he wont fight for you move on hun.....you will suffer terribly xx
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    show his parents Dina and Sid and just be like 'they can do it so can we'
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    Over 2 years later and I've found this thread. Still in the same situation, but becoming more real than ever. Wish I had listened to a lot of this advice and ended this a lot earlier in some ways.. But in other ways I've had the best few years of my life.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Over 2 years later and I've found this thread. Still in the same situation, but becoming more real than ever. Wish I had listened to a lot of this advice and ended this a lot earlier in some ways.. But in other ways I've had the best few years of my life.
    Still in the same situation? Damn :/
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    (Original post by Dima-Blackburn)
    Still in the same situation? Damn :/
    I know, mad isn't it? Should be reaching a conclusion soon though. He's going to tell his family after valentine's day (simply because breaking up before valentine's day is just depressing..) and we'll go from there! Scary stuff.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Over 2 years later and I've found this thread. Still in the same situation, but becoming more real than ever. Wish I had listened to a lot of this advice and ended this a lot earlier in some ways.. But in other ways I've had the best few years of my life.
    pm me id like to talk to you sister
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    This is the most sad post I've ever seen on here. I feel so sorry for you.


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    wow how did it go?
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    wow how did it go?
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    I think you have to leave him 😥
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    let me guess.... your wife is cheating on you because your such a ****
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    (Original post by reyyahh)
    I feel bad for you..... its happened to me we fell in love.... he went for his 6 week 'holiday' then bam i found out through fb he gt married..... its torn me apart..... if he wont fight for you move on hun.....you will suffer terribly xx
    Why didn't he at least tell you himself that he was getting married???? That seems to disrespectful
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    So what happened when he told his parents?
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    i feel the same way too It's really hard. It's really painful. Currently we are still in a relationship 7 months to be exact. We are both working, He is an Engr. and I am a Real Estate Agent. We really love each other, respect our cultures and beliefs. The moment you are like half- pakistani lady (by the way I am a Filipina) and He is like half- filipino And suddenly crushed because of the news that he is going to get married soon (arranged marriage). It's like a bomb, it hits your whole being. He is a family oriented, responsible and open minded and I can say that He is a straight guy but the thing is we have to sacrifice...now, as i type this words...i can feel my heart being stabbed. Just we talked again last night and both burst again in tears. We decided we have to be strong and pray to Allah that all will be healed. All our memories will be kept inside Sad feeling is an essential part of healing process...I have so much to say but I have to divert this feeling. Love until it hurts no more. Sad to belong to someone else when the chosen one comes along. For you sender, just pray, talk to Allah.. God bless...
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    Find some one else enjoy ur life don’t wait I’m sure there is many ****out there
 
 
 
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