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How to deal with the pain of Pakistani boyfriend marrying another girl? Watch

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    (Original post by Musie Suzie)
    I also feel this way, though of course I come from a totally different culture.

    But STILL.
    I understand how culture plays a big part in his life but (without this sounding like a fairytale) if it's really love then surely he could look past all the obstacles. I don't know,that's just me.
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    Hahaahaha this culture needs updating?!

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    Watch Citizen Khan and you will understand why the parents don't want anything other than Pakistani.
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    Lol
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    I feel bad for you..... its happened to me we fell in love.... he went for his 6 week 'holiday' then bam i found out through fb he gt married..... its torn me apart..... if he wont fight for you move on hun.....you will suffer terribly xx
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    show his parents Dina and Sid and just be like 'they can do it so can we'
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    You deserve it.
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    Over 2 years later and I've found this thread. Still in the same situation, but becoming more real than ever. Wish I had listened to a lot of this advice and ended this a lot earlier in some ways.. But in other ways I've had the best few years of my life.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Over 2 years later and I've found this thread. Still in the same situation, but becoming more real than ever. Wish I had listened to a lot of this advice and ended this a lot earlier in some ways.. But in other ways I've had the best few years of my life.
    Still in the same situation? Damn :/
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    (Original post by Dima-Blackburn)
    Still in the same situation? Damn :/
    I know, mad isn't it? Should be reaching a conclusion soon though. He's going to tell his family after valentine's day (simply because breaking up before valentine's day is just depressing..) and we'll go from there! Scary stuff.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Over 2 years later and I've found this thread. Still in the same situation, but becoming more real than ever. Wish I had listened to a lot of this advice and ended this a lot earlier in some ways.. But in other ways I've had the best few years of my life.
    pm me id like to talk to you sister
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    This is the most sad post I've ever seen on here. I feel so sorry for you.


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    wow how did it go?
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    (Original post by hl_18)
    wow how did it go?
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    I think you have to leave him 😥
 
 
 
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