i am a virgin, and on a night out i want to go back to a guys but all i want to do is spoon and thats it. how common is this? or do all guys just expect one thing on a night out? also how do you tell them thats all you want?
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just spooning.. watch
- Thread Starter
- 27-12-2014 11:09
- 27-12-2014 15:52
I really wouldn't say that's common, especially if it is a random boy as he would be expecting more thus putting yourself in a precarious and vulnerable position. It might annoy someone that you've given them the wrong idea by going back with them.
As for the telling them, if that's really all you want to happen lay it out before you even ask/are asked to go home with them, just to clear any confusion and let them know where you stand
- 27-12-2014 15:59
No you would only be able to do this with a boyfriend/friend you couldn't trust a random person to keep their word.