Girls; question

wtf?? of course he should go and speak to girls he likes. maybe hes just coming over a little too keen to get into their pants.

I'm really keen about a certain girl but it doesn't mean that my primary concern is getting into her pants.

But I am an Idealist and a very moral person.

All about the pants .

Ok, it maybe weird to get this question from a girl but i'm asking for a friend, its a question that he asked me and to be honest i couldn't think of an answer for him. He's a really nice guy, really friendly, and not bad looking either, ok he's hot. Basically what he told me was the whenever he talks to a girl she thinks he's arrogant cos he spoke to her and thought he might be in with a chance and when he doesnlt speak to a girl she thinks he's stuck up or too good for her, which is really not that case. Do all girls think this about all guys or is it just the girls he picks or is he doing something wrong? I've never thought that about a guy who spoke or didn't speak to me. So whats is going on with him and these girls. Would you think a guy was arrogant just for speaking to you or stuck up just for not speaking to you? I felt really bad cos i couldn't answer his question cos it seemed to be really getting to him that he couldn't win with girls.

No it isn't. It's more than that.

Bra as well then? sorry, couldnt resist!

By the sounds of it he just ocming across in the wrong way, get him to give you examples of what he says and maybe you could pick out the bits that might be intimidating ect.

bloody hell lose-lose situation eh? cant you go out withhim to give him more confidence? by the sound of it, youd like ot

No it isn't. It's more than that.

No, i can't go out with him, he's my boyfriends housemate and he asked me since i am the only girl who is ever over there, so presumably the rest of the house are having similar problems (apart from one, who i know is complete arse).

But I am an Idealist and a very moral person.

You mean a stuck up emo?

I'm not an emo.