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    Hi I work with this girl that I think may or may not like me.

    The other day she arranged this after work get together for all colleagues and we all agreed to go.

    A few days later I said I couldn't make it due to other reasons and she went and cancelled the whole thing altogether to a date that I can make.

    It was about 20 people in total and the whole thing got cancelled because of me, I insisted on the event going forward but she was really reluctant so the date got changed.

    I pushed her on it and she just said that she wants every single person to go but last time she arranged a similar thing, a few people couldn't go but she never rearranged it at all.

    Does this mean anything?

    Under what circumstances would a girl do this?

    Wow if that's not a reason for wanting the D then I don't know what is

    But I do.

    She wants you get in there son

    I think she PROBABLY likes you judging from that, but I wouldn't carve it in stone just yet.

    I have in the past re-arranged dates of events to make sure everyone (I was close to) could come even if I hadn't in the past and I wasn't romantically interested in any of the people involved. Though I would have been organising an event with a smaller amount of people being my specific invites.
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