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My girlfriend is pushing me away. Should I be worried Watch

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    Hi I'm 16 and have been seeing my girlfriend for about 3 months now. We have been on and off for 2 or so years now. I admit I hurt her last time and I admit to being stupid. We had forgotten everything but all a sudden she keeps brigimg up the past and pushing me away.

    I have been trying to make this time work out for the both of us. We don't get much time just me and her and when we do I can tell she's not that interested. she admitted to me that she wasn't interested at the beginning but now she is extremely. This is over text which she is so different on.

    Is this just a girl thing ? Does she actually care and just worried about getting hurt again? Much help is very appreciated
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    Urgh, why can't relationships ever be simple? Sounds like she never really got over what happened. You say you both forgot about it, but she probably didn't. And maybe she's just realised that she still hasn't forgiven you and that is why it's all surfacing again. If she's pushing you away, just persist in asking her what is wrong. If she doesn't tell you, just be direct and reassure her you won't hurt her again. It's really hard when somebody gets hurt in a relationship - I can understand both of your points of view. Good luck with everything.
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    I know right. Thanks man
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    What did you do to hurt her?

    The severity will determine how you approach this.
 
 
 
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