watching porn lowers your standards in women

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Reply 20

Olderandwiser23

Original post by Catholic_

Porn is evil and abuses innocent women. Men who use women for porn are depraved low life citizens.

What about women who want to be in porn?or those who enjoy watching it? Are we too abused?

Reply 21

Olderandwiser23

Any man who genuinely think women in porn are what normal women look like are totally retarded.

Like when men say "when women wear make up they're basically lying to us"

The best response is "I don't know why I'm being blamed for me being stupid enough to think I actually have gold eyelids"

Same goes for porn stars.

Reply 22

A5ko

Original post by Olderandwiser23

What are you saying? He WASN'T there to fix her sink???

Reply 23

Olderandwiser23

Original post by A5ko

What are you saying? He WASN'T there to fix her sink???

Sorry :/ I know this is hard to hear.

Reply 24

hellodave5

I personally don't think so. People tend to have a nice dissociation in place: those in pornography aren't real :tongue:

Not sure if you would function too well if you generalised from such things to daily life.
Tried to think of an analogy... but failed.

Reply 25

thunder_chunky

Original post by Clip

I've said it before, and I'll say it again:

No good has ever come from having standards.

I'm waaaaaay ahead of you there.

Original post by Catholic_

Porn is evil and abuses innocent women. Men who use women for porn are depraved low life citizens.

The same could be said for religion.

Reply 26

Da Di Doo

What if you're a girl who watches porn?

Reply 27

Smash Bandicoot

Original post by Da Di Doo

What if you're a girl who watches porn?

Disilllusions you to men. See above

Reply 28

thunder_chunky

Original post by Da Di Doo

What if you're a girl who watches porn?

Then it lowers your standards in plumbers, pool cleaners, and pizza delivery men.

Reply 29

battycatlady

Porn gives unrealistic expectations to both men and women.

I don't have a problem with porn if it's taken for what it is- fantasy.

It's when people transfer those expectations to real life that it becomes an issue.

And then of course there are a whole host of feminist issues related to porn- a lot of women choose to work in the sex industry (which is great!), but a lot don't. And of course now the new UK porn regulations have banned some stupid things, female ejaculation being one of them. Good job, government.

And I think it speaks volumes that the most watched porn category is teen porn- the fetishisation of young girls is not an ok thing to perpetuate.

Reply 30

ETRC

Original post by Olderandwiser23

you do know there are amateur videos of real looking people
also a lot of vids involve normal looking people (about 40%)

Reply 31

Olderandwiser23

Original post by ETRC

you do know there are amateur videos of real looking people
also a lot of vids involve normal looking people (about 40%)

OfCourse. I'm basing this purely on porn stars. Amateur is actually better porn imo however I don't think that frequently makes it into playboy

Reply 32

-Rainbow Drops-

Original post by Olderandwiser23

OfCourse. I'm basing this purely on porn stars. Amateur is actually better porn imo however I don't think that frequently makes it into playboy

Yeah coz no one wants to see ugly vaginas and flab bouncing around

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Reply 33

ilem

It's increased my standards if anything.

Reply 34

Schrödingers Cat

Original post by Vixen47

Watching porn lowers your standards in sex. If I was a sex doctor (do those exist?) I would recommend one experienced sex addict to each porn addict. This cure is just magical. :daydreaming:

Not true, people who watch porn have unrealistic expectations of sex not the other way round

Reply 35

redleader1

Original post by Veggiechic6

I thought it raised standards to something un-natural and impossible? E.g a guy watches porn and then thinks every woman he sleeps with should be skinny, long blonde hair, massive boobs, perfect 'downstairs' and happy to do whatever he asks?

Thats what I thought

Reply 36

Schrödingers Cat

Original post by thunder_chunky

Then it lowers your standards in plumbers, pool cleaners, and pizza delivery men.

Reply 37

LickingCarpet

Original post by Vixen47

Watching porn lowers your standards in sex. If I was a sex doctor (do those exist?) I would recommend one experienced sex addict to each porn addict. This cure is just magical. :daydreaming:

So which one are you? :tongue:

Reply 38

Valeraine

I do get what you mean. By watching porn you may be more prone to recite fantasies and previously watched porn so therefore the women need not be unattractive per se but men with higher expectations will find that woman more attractive if he has fantasies to place her in. Do you get what I mean? Also by watching porn you may find that you start seeing things attractive that you never used to or never thought you did like for example, pubic hair. So yes I agree with this statement.