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    (Original post by Vixen47)
    Watching porn lowers your standards in sex. If I was a sex doctor (do those exist?) I would recommend one experienced sex addict to each porn addict. This cure is just magical. :daydreaming:
    So which one are you?
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    I do get what you mean. By watching porn you may be more prone to recite fantasies and previously watched porn so therefore the women need not be unattractive per se but men with higher expectations will find that woman more attractive if he has fantasies to place her in. Do you get what I mean? Also by watching porn you may find that you start seeing things attractive that you never used to or never thought you did like for example, pubic hair. So yes I agree with this statement.
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    Watching porn makes you realose you are bot good enoigh for your woman and she WILL leave you for the alpha eventually!
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    No it doesn't. It's fiction and it's idiotic for it to affect your view on a woman's personality.
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    (Original post by Olderandwiser23)
    OfCourse. I'm basing this purely on porn stars. Amateur is actually better porn imo however I don't think that frequently makes it into playboy
    if we are talking about porn stars then supermodels also create a very high standard and they look like porn stars t.
    our standards are not only affected by porn. the media pretty much controls the general standards of women.
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    Depends on what kind of porn you're watching. If you watch the usual boring mainstream stuff, of course you will expect women to look like alien barbie dolls, however, if you go for more 'natural' stuff which IMHO is more of a turn on because it's more realistic, i.e. curvier women, amateur etc. then I think it actually raises standards of women-worship.
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    (Original post by -Rainbow Drops-)
    Yeah coz no one wants to see ugly vaginas and flab bouncing around
    You're watching the wrong stuff.
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    (Original post by frankieboy)
    You're watching the wrong stuff.
    You like all the flab bouncing around? Ew

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    (Original post by -Rainbow Drops-)
    You like all the flab bouncing around? Ew
    How on earth did you draw that conclusion from what I said?

    For the record though - I'd much rather a tiny bit of flab than skinny women all boney and stuff. I like 'curvy' - hourglass yet toned.
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    (Original post by there's too much love)
    Yes. Who needs a personality?
    I personally prefer great sex partner over a great relationship
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    (Original post by -Rainbow Drops-)
    Yeah coz no one wants to see ugly vaginas and flab bouncing around

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    I do not like your insensitive style of posting dude :mad:
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    (Original post by Blue_Mason)
    I personally prefer great sex partner over a great relationship
    I guess that's the difference between us; I'm not willing to compromise.
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    I would've thought it increases it :/ or no difference

    I mean, you can't seriously expect every man to look like James Deen although, I guess if that's all you've seen then I suppose it may be the case
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    Are you kidding? Pornography is the only thing that enables me to have standards.
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    (Original post by LickingCarpet)
    So which one are you?


    :sexface:

    I am neither a porn addict, nor a sex addict. I'm simply the Sex God.
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    I don't see why anyone needs porn to be honest. Back when you were 15 and wanted to look at naughty things online or sneakily turn the TV channel over after your parents had gone to bed, fair enough. However, as an adult its rather easy to get laid if you put the effort in so there really is no need for it.
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    (Original post by there's too much love)
    I guess that's the difference between us; I'm not willing to compromise.
    He didn't compromise,he stated a preference.

    I think the 'problem' with porn (if there is one) is that it can skew standards for everyone, both positively and negatively; whether it's the attractiveness of any parties involved, clever editing, the 'tone', whatever. There's a million ways in which porn is different from reality; as anyone who's experienced sex in real life could say.

    If a person finds that their standards are consciously affected specifically by porn then they're either far too impressionable or have problems differentiating from reality.

    If a person finds that their standards are subtly, subconsciously affected by porn, I would argue this is part of a larger pattern in which mass media and public opinion (in a perpetual, vicious cycle) determine what traits are attractive or not; and that's certainly not something that's unique to women.
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    I don't think wanting a woman who takes care of her body is an unrealistic expectation.

    This crap usually comes from women who harp on about respecting their body and then inhale a few pies and doughnuts on a daily basis.

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    (Original post by StretfordEnd)
    He didn't compromise,he stated a preference.

    I think the 'problem' with porn (if there is one) is that it can skew standards for everyone, both positively and negatively; whether it's the attractiveness of any parties involved, clever editing, the 'tone', whatever. There's a million ways in which porn is different from reality; as anyone who's experienced sex in real life could say.

    If a person finds that their standards are consciously affected specifically by porn then they're either far too impressionable or have problems differentiating from reality.

    If a person finds that their standards are subtly, subconsciously affected by porn, I would argue this is part of a larger pattern in which mass media and public opinion (in a perpetual, vicious cycle) determine what traits are attractive or not; and that's certainly not something that's unique to women.
    He is compromising, I don't settle for just one of those things in a partner.
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    (Original post by ETRC)
    if we are talking about porn stars then supermodels also create a very high standard and they look like porn stars t.
    our standards are not only affected by porn. the media pretty much controls the general standards of women.
    I completely agree.
 
 
 
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